Quote:Is it preferable to make up a conversation with an helper or just waiting for signs as weaks and hardly interpretable as they can be ?
This really depends on the individual. Some are helped by some initial pretending/imagination as Bruce talks about, and others prefer to picture their mind white and blank.
Try both and see what works better for you. You may even find that at different times, one approach works well one time, and the other works better at another.
Like truth, not much of this is static, though there are some universals as well. But there is also an ever present "relativity" to it all. That relativity only drops away for an individual when they realize their Soul's and Spirit's highest dream/aspiration. To return consciously to the Home of Homes, in the Heart of their Maker.
For this self, I find being present in the body has some importance, for self came here for retrieval. One needs to eventually become like a Tree, with the roots in the ground, but the branches reaching up into the heavens. When this is done well and long enough, and the mind and the heart merge into one, the form of the Tree disappears, and pure Light is revealed.
Morrighan, Uno, and Recoverer2 all make good points. Let's see if this self can provide a little meeting ground and synthesis between these. The clue is in "Hemi-Sync". It's very true that over focus on the left brain, intellect part of us, can prevent more clear reception of data from the nonphysical.
This is why men, tend to be less strongly, consciously and overtly intuitive than women. Men tend to have more focus on the left brain and intellect aspects of the human energy system.
Especially those connected to male bodies, we do need to "tone" or "tune down" that loud, chattering monkey mind some. But we still need it, just quiet and in the background, observing more.
It is the right brain and Yin part of us that is more involved in the actual receiving of info/data from the nonphysical. Like Yin attunement and the seeming "side" of Consciousness, the right brain is by nature very receptive, absorbing, intaking, observing, quiet, and more passive. It is easily trampled on by the louder and more active Yang, male, and left brain part of us.
Hence, as Morrighan as said, the need for silence and quietness.
But there is no completely shutting down the intellect and left brain part of us, nor should we try. That's the part that helps us to interpret and consciously recognize/understand what's being received by the right brain.
In short, we need to balance, integrate, and synthesize them, rather than forsake one for the other. But, particularly for the average male, it IS good to first become a little imbalanced towards the Yin and right brain to help balance out the habit and pattern of over Yang and left brain attunement.
Do you speak astro. language at all? Well, when transiting Neptune came to be very close to (what astro folks call "conjoining"), the Sun in my chart, which rules the Ascendant sign, for awhile, I went over much to the Yin side. Whoa Man, Oneness is All (head swaying), it's so so beautiful man. I even contemplated for a short time, that maybe individuality was an illusion and that Oneness was all there is.
Or, in other words, I for a time, became way too polarized to the Yin and the right brain parts of the human energy system, which a polarized reflection and reflected imbalance of the stuck levels of consciousness.
Meaning, in the non stuck, fully free level of consciousness, that of pure Love. There is no "Yin/Feminine" or "Yang/Masculine" per se, or rather there no separation/difference/imbalance or polarization between these. It is what it is and it's perfectly merged and beyond either.
Or, as Bob Monroe said very well, "The whole is greater than the sum of it's parts".
So yes, continue spending time learning to be still, quiet, receptive (your inner Feminine self), so that you can more easily and consciously perceive data/info from the nonphysical.
Or, as the Teacher of teachers has taught and said, 8"And the two shall be one flesh; after that they are not two, but one flesh." 9"The things that God unites let not a son of man separate."
He was asked about marriage, and while he did address the material level, at the same time, he also addressed a deeper consciousness truth that relates to what I've been outlining to you and others.
When one fully attunes to pure Love, then the Two become One in the flesh. Or, as Bob Monroe might have said, we become like "He/She" of his 3rd book. I'm not quite there yet, kind of like 51% male and 49% female at this point because of the influence of a male human animal body, but that is starting to be phased into what some call Soul and Spirit. When the body meets face to face with pineal gland, and then starts activating the pituitary, and then one starts to phase into 50% female and 50% male, then the Tree disappears and the Light within the form is revealed.