Justin2710
Ex Member
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Hi all,
We are all Gurus to some extent, both in the positive meaning of the word as in a conscious Teacher, and in the more negative sense of preaching to others...
You don't need to preach heavy, to preach.
Anyone of us on here is being a Guru because we are telling others what we believe, feel and think is true, or right, etc., etc. And since we all have egos (or at least i'm assuming) occasionally we project the negative Gura aspect, if not outloud, then in our thoughts eh?
Some are just more honest with themselves than others, and almost completly and fully accept themselves.
The only true Gurus, are the ones who communicate very little in the way of words, but more with their actions, thoughts, feelings, in an everyday kind of way. Ones of a shining example...
These are few and far between it seems.
Now, say you pretty much live by yourself or just have a lot of your own personal "space", and you don't have to deal with someone and their quirks and occasional negative energy, and hang ups almost 24/7... And the only time you come into contact with others in on a very impersonal medium like the I-net (especially where so many agree with you usually, and fluff your ego, etc), or occasionally go out around others and can pretty much control the situation...
Isn't so much easier to be a "spiritual" person, to keep your center then? Relationships, particulary in-physical "daily grind" ones can be quite challenging....
I think this is the only reason why i'm with my Fiance/Twin Soul, other wise i would go it alone and be celibate since i'm rather impersonal for the most part. She helps me to grow, and i help her and as long as we are growing--oft through friction and challenge--then its a very useful expereince...
Course my human emotional self, loves her much from an ego level too i.e. attachment, and need for affection... and its All Good, as long as i don't get too hung up on this aspect... Otherwise our H.S.'s may plot together and say, hey you guys need to be on your own for awhile... One might even die.. and again learning through suffering.....
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