I just listened to some of the below video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kBo5VivyePEI commented as below. Going by what Tom says, people such as Robert Monroe and Bruce Moen where just Avatars, and were heartlessly eaten by their IOUCs. I believe if Tom listened to his heart a little more, he would find differently.
"I believe Tom is a bit confused. Instead of using the term IOUC I will use the term Higher Self (I mean this in an Oversoul kind of way). When we rejoin our higher selves, we don't get snuffed out of existence. Think of how heartless a higher self would be, if it snuffed its projections out of existence, once they return. How could a being actually lower entropy, if it was so heartless and love lacking, that it snuffs it projections (slaves) out of existence, after they complete going through all they go through while incarnated in places such as this world.
I've experienced divine love many times, and there is no way love-based beings are going to snuff all of us Uncle Fred's out of existence.
Consider Soul Groups. Many IOUCs are like one unit, yet they are also distinct. When we rejoin our Higher Self we are a part of our larger being. Check out Ron Krueger's NDE.
https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1ron_k_nde.htmlConsider how Bruce Moen made contact with his Disk (higher self) members. I have done the same.
If a person wants to lose entropy, he better make certain that he doesn't get so tangled up in what "his' logic says, so that he can't listen to his heart. It is not illogical for conscious beings to be one and many at the same time. It is not illogical for us to be aware of our distinctiveness and Total Self (IOUC) at the same time. Each thinking unit doesn't need to be dissolved, in order for an IOUC to be functional.
Consider reading France Rae Key's the team books, to get a better idea of how we can be one and many at the same time.
Is there a time when the Creator of all is going to have to heartlessly gobble up all of the IOUCs, so it can exist in a functional way?
If IOUCs can evolve, why can't people such as Uncle Fred evolve?
Some of Tom's logic is faulty. Sometimes our logic is twisted in the direction we want it to go. When we "grow up," we don't allow it to be twisted. It is not immature for a person to want to know if their deceased loved one is doing okay."
I have been able to come to some logical consistencies without concluding the same as Tom.
Did Tom have free will when he came to his conclusions? If not, how can you trust what he says?"
P.S. Elisa Medhus, author of the book "My Son and the Afterlife" was mentioned in the video. At the back of the book are words where Tom praises the book. Jaime Butler was the supposed channel for this book. Consider the below.
https://afterlife-knowledge.com/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.cgi?num=1569288214