Maisie wrote on Jan 2nd, 2020 at 1:50am:I have a difficult relationship with my sister and there is nothing to be gained by discussing anything in person with her, she is just not present in this dimension. So I talk to her higher self and send her love that way and that seems to have benefited our relationship.
I use this same technique on my relationships too, especially before bed as it can usually trigger a dream with that person's higher self. The dream is confirmation for me that my words and requests were heard, and it's validation that we're communicating and reaching mutual ground. My request is always that I speak to the other person's higher self and that it delivers the message to the person's physical self in the best way possible if it's in agreement with my message. Basically, I want its "blessing", as I never want to impose my intention or desires on anyone.
It's especially useful for when a person I want to talk to and work on things with is not able to rise above an earthly issue and is in essence stuck there emotionally. It's kind of like trying to tell a person who is feeling sad to just cheer up. Doesn't work. People need to go through whatever they need to go through, you can't rush them, and with the state they're in they won't really hear you in the right frame of mind anyway. In other words, your words fall on deaf ears. So when I talk to their higher self it does two things: It puts me in the right "frame of mind" which instantly delivers my message quickly and purely, basically bypassing all that's clogging the channel (emotions, fear, the ego), and it also helps get my message into the other person's consciousness in the safest, fastest, purest way possible without me causing more communication barriers.
What I mean by communication barriers would be like, let's say I want to have a conversation with a guy about my feelings, and he's not in the mood, he's busy, and is avoiding sensitive topics like this because he doesn't really know how to respond anyway. If I keep forcing him to have a conversation like that, it's going to get awkward between us real fast. It's not good for me to just act like I can just blow it off, because then I'll be hurting and become resentful. But if I ask his higher self basically like, "Hey, this is how I feel. This is what I want him to know. This is what I need from him. Is it ok if you deliver this message to him in the best way possible for him to really hear me and understand me in the way I intend?" then I get the stuff off my chest, I am doing it with the purest intention possible, and it also helps me to feel PUL in the process rather than feeling needy. Because let's face it, even a really great guy isn't always going to know how to handle emotional topics delicately and sensitively, especially if he can sense you're not at your best either.
It also helps me to not get bogged down with ego-stuff like my own emotions, and the next time I communicate physically with that person they see the change in me and it lifts them as well. That recently happened with a male friend and after a fantastic conversation he said, "Wow, that went surprisingly well. I admit I was a little afraid of how this conversation was going to go but this was incredible."
These situations don't always have to be negative ones. They can be any type of situation or relationship. I just find that it helps me be my best and I really do believe it speaks directly to their higher self.
Anyway, I love when it triggers a "spiritual dream", one in which it's not just a dream about that person but has the special qualities that tells me it's a real communication with their higher self. These types, for me at least, are always that in the dream the person doesn't need to speak to communicate but will communicate through their energy and expressing PUL, and I wake up really feeling their energy so strongly.
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