You can ask for her now, if you want. You can ask for a dream or a sign from her, and see what happens. You can sit and think about her in a relaxed way, and imagine spending some time with her, in the way you used to do, in a way that you enjoy. As you do, you may speak to her in your mind your thoughts of love and she can hear you. You can get a sense of where she is now, but you must allow yourself to feel her presence. Feeling fears will block you from the knowing that you are seeking. So, the main thing is to relax and study a little bit, as people are recommending here. There is 'no time' in the afterlife as we experience it here, so there is really no reason to hurry in any way, or even to worry. Once you begin to believe in love, it will take care of the rest.
cutie wrote on Oct 31st, 2009 at 1:21pm:She was not a beliver when she died, I'm scared that she has gone to a horrible place just because of this.
Do you think I will ever see her again?
We were very close, I more or less lived with her.