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Dec 29th, 2007 at 11:59am
 
Greetings,

We got into the ethics of some life choices on another thread, and it got me wonderring about other life style choices---
Has your experience with the afterlife affected your ideas about ownership?

I was amazed at first to find we could create an owned area in focus 27. Puzzlement!   But, planets 'own' moons, right? Ownership teaches responsibility, right?  So it must not be 'bad,' but how do we know how much or how little to own?

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Reply #1 - Dec 29th, 2007 at 3:00pm
 
or maybe the question is; which is better, quality of life, or quantity of life.

I would go for a short high quality of life, anytime over a long life with little attained other than the amassing of material items.
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Reply #2 - Dec 29th, 2007 at 4:42pm
 
Society has problems with ownership. Neither are we able to share amongst ourselves without somebody grabbing power and seeking excesses, nor are we able to administer an equable distribution without suppression and exploitation of positions of power for priviledge. These two issues are the basis for the Marxist conflict theory by which Marx and Engels finally decided to eliminate property all together - and that didn't work either in other than a very few tiny, isolated, instances. Even the average family has problems prioritizing distribution of goods, and aside from a few well-trained sports teams, and perhaps a couple monasteries, collective work for the common good with equal distrubution of benefits simply doesn't occur. Ownership, economics and governance promise job security for social scientists for another few centuries.

This does not mean that we need to worry about ownership on a personal level. So long as we treat each case as an individual instance, and resolve it in a manner which we honestly feel is the best that can be done, then we're OK. That's the moral criterion.

Karma is more pragmatic. If our judgement is inaccurate, then what happens is that we will have a chance later to see how it fails in some manner. The greedy will have a greedy setting in which to learn that generosity is useful. The frivolous, who give away the world, will have a chance to learn that there is also benefit to retaining and developing one's resources. And those who work to benefit themselves without harm to others, and to bring up the standards of living of others nearby will find that those others are supportive and helpful in maintaining a partnership by which everyone benefits.

In other words, it's a personal matter, and one in which we each have to make personal decisions. The simplest spiritual guide is perhaps to look at the world as God's house, in which we are employed to improve things for everybody. What we own is not given solely to spend and enjoy, but also is given for our stewardship in its maintenance and development.

It is tempting to look at others to criticize what we see - however, we must remember that they have a different vision, hear the sound of a different drummer, and march to a goal that we may have abandoned long ago. Nonetheless, they are doing the best that they know, and our basic task is to avoid interaction with those factors that we find distasteful. In that way, we retain a maximum of autonomy in our own lives. Thus, if you feel aggressive war to be immoral, don't become an aggressive warrior.

The Hindu culture recognizes four stages of life. In the first we are students. Next we are householders, responsible for family. The third phase allows us to assist the society as a religious renunciate or hermit accumulating wisdom. (Doubtless participation in forums like this one qualifies for that stage.)  And in the fourth stage we become wandering sunyassins, gurus and sages, neither owning property nor having a proper place. The society feeds these people and respects them as God's representatives - at least in principle. This is another approach to ownership in which property is secondary and personal growth is primary. It is very close to the actual life experiences of a devout person (although it fails miserably to feed into the desires of the greedy materialist).

I suggest that this is going to be an approximate outline for the lives of most of us.

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Reply #3 - Dec 30th, 2007 at 7:30am
 
Perhaps first, Bets, would be to remember that there is nothing material on this earth that truly belongs to us. There is nothing that lasts, nothing that will save us, nothing that will fulfill our deepest needs. The pursuit of pleasure fills our time, and then we must maintain our pleasures, store and restore them, tire of them, and all the while, quietly...become their servants.

Perhaps first, Bets, acknowledge your relationship with this earth.

Who and what do you serve?

Can you pick up a "thing" and let it go, even as you do?

Can you let it go before you even pick it up?

Then, you are free.

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Reply #4 - Dec 30th, 2007 at 1:21pm
 
I know I 'own' one thing and that is My Word! Smiley
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Reply #5 - Dec 30th, 2007 at 5:06pm
 
Smiley You'll probably find you don't even 'own' that Dood next time you get misquoted or misunderstood...

My sense on ownership is that as ever it's not a black and white one dimensional issue, but rather another of these multidimensional trust in goodness vs. ego/grasping/attachment issues.

We all need certain basics to live - food, clothing, housing, transport, tools of our trade or whatever. Life if we can trust and just go with the flow on an 'easy come, easy go' basis seems usually to find ways to get these basics into our hands.

I've for example been amazed through years of illness and consequent problems with work at the way something always fell into place just when i needed it, when it was starting to look a bit dodgy. I've never been motivated by money or material gain, but have at times been worried about not being able to get by.

Perhaps the focus 27 scene is simply one where our needs are provided for in precisely this same way. I guess another angle is that there can be no lack or (or fear of it) in a reality where mind creates more or less immediately. Its a little tougher here where we can still create, but the delay between intention and result (not to mention the effort) is rather longer and provides rather more opportunity for doubt to creep in.

Working a bit more deeply with the fear of not having enough I've concluded that my personal fear was coming from what was actually a fairly deeply felt sense of lack of personal worth - that I wasn't seeing the situation accurately.

That I'm actually a pretty capable type that there's usually somebody can use, and that anyway when people figured I was possibly in trouble I've been amazed at the number of incredibly generous offers of help I've received. (luckily I haven't had to tap these offers, but they were very re-assuring) That's not to blow my own trumpet, but rather to illustrate that I wasn't seeing the reality.

It's not of course 100% reliable. Many for example suffer famine or poverty, presumably nothing to do with how they relate to food, goods or money. But there are potentially bigger life lessons or karmic issues in play there I guess.

It is very possible to have a very unhealthy and grasping relationship with  money and material goods. As epitomised by the many who no matter how much they have still compulsively pour all of their energy into seeking more.

That implies it's become something of a demon for them - that whatever need it satisfies is so ingrained that the behaviour has become a compulsion. I can see very easily for example how if my own fear was a little stronger, or my situation a little worse that it could have become an issue for me.....



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Reply #6 - Dec 31st, 2007 at 12:41am
 
Cool

Hi,

Ownership should be unlimited in my view, as the universe is full of empty usable planets suitable and lovely. There is enough out there to give each human that has ever lived a billion planets and not even scratch the surface of this enormous source. However, we must mature before we inherit this kind of reward. Power corrupts and absolute power absolutely. "In my house are many mansions"

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Reply #7 - Dec 31st, 2007 at 10:28pm
 
Hi Bets and all,

regarding the creative aspect of ownership, let's say you create something like a surrounding, a space; it could be a household, a facility, an institute, a website, music, painting, movies, speech, or a place at Focus 27. In any of these cases, as soon as these spaces are visited by others than yourself, the issue occurs what effect it may have on others. We never will be able to entirely predict all the effects on all those different people, but we can try to estimate it roughly. Furthermore, our judgement whether the effects on others are good or bad is our personal judgement; it's all we have, but it is not necessarily the absolute truth, so we can't say for certain if the influence of our created places on others "is" good or bad. We also have to balance it with our own needs; sometimes maybe the benefit we gain for ourselves can be so great that we can tolerate that it would cause some little discomfort to some others. To ponder this all, as good as we can, is our responsibility of our creative ownership.

On the more material level, it always bugs me that I, who lives in one of the most wealthy countries of the world, do own so much more than the average person of the poorest countries. If I would sell much of my property and give the money to the poor, it would help them maybe for a short while, but I would have then heavy problems with my own life. So, what shall I do? I don't know.
  The idea of entirely shared group-ownership isn't working for two main reasons. Let's say a community has a guitar. One member of this community is a very gifted guitar player and can get this guitar really to live. Another one hasn't this ability and borrows it to just jam around with it, and maybe damage the guitar. Now it turns out, one and the same item is much more valuable together with person one, as it would be with person two. This is because in nearly all human communities we can notice that different persons have different talents; people are specialists. The other main reason is motivation. One is working all day long, the other is lazy. Both have the same ownership, because everything is shared. There are not many people who would stay busy when they see their neighbour is having a fine day without working.

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Reply #8 - Jan 1st, 2008 at 4:05pm
 
interesting thread y'all. thanks Bets, u did it again! she gets the best threads going.
if I take her thought literally and look at it again I think I wonder the same thing and I start imagining about home ownership, more on the other side than on this side.

on this side of life, in a body a home is necessary. I look at myself and I see that at first I was a renter. nobody would give me a loan to buy a house for a woman with 2 kids, divorced, and no credit, only a part time job and $100 a month child support. thank the fates, I remained friendly with ex hubby and he signed as co-owner on me a house after I was able to purchase a mobile home and have ownership for a year on that.

so moving up here, might be like moving up on the other side, u take on more responsibility in crements. as I imagine in the afterlife, its only in the astral realms we would be wanting to build something, and maintain what we are habituated to on this side.
I would not want large structure; I like cozy, less to take care of. but then on the other side, no maintenance required! such as cleaning up. wow. drop a banana peel on the floor and command it to disappear! haha!
actually, what I'm visualizing is quite different than a structure in which I would be parked. I assume we only need shelter from the weather here. unless we are creating of the weather over there, who would need shelter?
I see myself as never being home, once I get on the other side, I would be all over the universe and never need to lay down and rest. I'd always be with people, we'd be busy and happy all the time doing whatever we do, mostly as guides, training ourselves or training others in the art of living, and of course building stuff like a home even. I hear theres a trick to manifesting the home out of astral/etheric matter, we have teachers over there specifically teach this.

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Reply #9 - Jan 2nd, 2008 at 4:05pm
 
Greetings,

From what some of you have said here, now I'm wondering if focus 27 might be some sort of 'half-way house' to the physical?  So we can get used to having ( or giving up ) material extensons of ourselves, before we move into the physical --or away from it  for a less dense material incarnation (Focus Level 33 and beyond. ??

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Reply #10 - Jan 2nd, 2008 at 8:00pm
 
Yes Bets, "half-way-house" to the physical, could be. One of the functions of Focus 27, according to Monroe, Bruce and others is to provide a familiar surrounding for those who come back from an adventure on physical earth. Another function is to plan another travel down there. I don't know though how it is for entities who are new to the human experience. Maybe these newbies can't perceive it that well, or can't make sense of it. Following Monroe's second book, he as "AA" was attracted by the physical earth and dived into it for a short trip (which became many trips then) out of curiosity, and he didn't tell that he went to Focus 27 first to learn how to behave on earth.

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Reply #11 - Jan 3rd, 2008 at 5:30am
 
Hi Bets and everyone,
Great topic. "Ownership"...Hmmmm Undecided - in my opinion there is no such thing and yes, I began to think and feel that way as of coming in contact with the afterlife, Bets. It changed my perspective.

Very good point I feel was the fact that "our word" is not even owned for it gets twisted, turned, misused and misunderstood at times. Our hearts emotion even gets stolen from those whom we are in love with, thank God!

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