heisenberg69 wrote on Jun 7th, 2012 at 4:03am:'As far as I can tell it is rare for a medium to be in contact with an actual deceased loved one. It is possible of course, just unlikely in my opinion. More likely is being in contact with another spiritual being that has the ability to access memory in a "database" if the medium doesn't have the ability to access it themselves.'
Hi Kathy,
I'd be interested to know how you came to this point of view.
D
Hi Dave,
LOL
You may be asking for my life's story here...
My viewpoints as with anyone else is based on my life long understanding of what I've learned through experience and my attempt to make sense out of it.
Briefly, I believe studies show ADC with a loved one takes place about 50% of the time during the first year after death. The communication in most of the cases I know about was instigated by the deceased loved one directly to a loved one still alive as a reassurance, without the need for a medium. The purpose seems to be to not only provide comfort, but also to open the person still living to larger possibilities as well as giving them encouragement to live life fully.
After the initial reacclimation to the spirit realm, the person known in our memory no longer exists as that same person. They have moved on and communication with them would likely be extremely difficult. Believe it or not but our "guides" can and do a lot of impersonations if it is deemed helpful to one's spiritual growth. In addition, what we may or may not "see" in non-physical reality is based on our own consciousness, beliefs, expectations and what we are able to understand as well as what might promote our spiritual growth.
It certainly is possible a medium is in contact with an actual person, but I see it as unlikely.
I don't know if this answers your question, but I hope it helps.
Kathy