Here's a link on that BBS to another one they have:
http://p200.ezboard.com/bfriendsalongtheroad

I couldn't imagine the pain that your going through with the lose of your daughter. A friend of mine lost her 3yr.old son to an electricution in a public park. I have watched her pain. If I may suggest something that worked for her. Tonight, when your alone, turn off the lights, light a candle, and talk to her aloud ,as if she was there with you. Tell her what you want to tell her. For as long as it takes. But, before the end of your conversation. Tell her you love her, but, you really need to let her go for now. That you have been neglecting your other commitments. And save a place for me. You might be surprised. Put all your heart and soul into it. It worked once, it just might work again.  Good luck, God Bless, time heals all wounds, get involved in something that means alot to you.