I have not had an NDE. However, I will share some thoughts.
Existing in some kind of nondescript, totally peaceful "nirvana" state of oneness in the Light sounds like it would be nice -- for a while (like a much needed vacation from reality), but
not forever. There are other states of being that are nice too, and more interesting. States of being where thought is possible, time and space do exist, there are more boundaries and distinctions, etc. There are plusses and minuses of each state, IMO.
Both the traditional Christian and Buddhist ideals of the afterlife just seem awfully dull, to me. On the one hand, spending an eternity as the exact same person, praying and worshipping all the time, never being able to sin or screw up or learn anymore; on the other hand, spending all eternity in some dreamy merger with the Cosmic Mind where you can't do any of the exciting and productive things you can do as a discrete entity.
Neither one is my cup of tea. Maybe both of them would be fine for a while, but not forever. Forever is a very long time. And yes, time is a valuable thing too. Without time, there could be no such thing as memory or anticipation, which also make existence richer and more interesting.
I guess I'm just a sucker for the lower levels of being, huh?
But, may I ask, what exactly is so much higher and better than actually being a real individual in a real universe with real space and time and all the glorious possibilities afforded by these distinctions? I'd say, to be without these things is in some sense a deprivation and reduction of creative potential. I think this is precisely why the universe was created -- because it creates
more possibilities and makes things
more interesting.
Being one with the Light, absorbed into the Light, is surely a very pleasant and healing experience, but it is not the end all and be all of existence. If it were, then reality would be so much duller than what it actually is. JMHO.
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