John Ells wrote on Mar 25th, 2018 at 8:56pm: some think (including me) that it is always our own choice whether to incarnate or not.
I think so too. I'm always remembering that there's me here and then there's the bigger Me, the greater part of my being, and that what the me here wants might be different from what the rest of me wants or has planned. Obviously it's all a matter of perspective. From my present perspective, I am not particularly thrilled about the idea of coming back again, but I can open my mind and imagine from another perspective that there would probably be some good reasons and benefits from doing so.
I like to believe that even though my soul makes plans and that there are things I'm not aware of from my perspective at the moment, that I still have free will to make changes and decisions at any time in this whole process. It's my belief that we have a life, not just here, but there too. And since time is irrelevant per se, then I just try not to worry about such big decisions from this perspective.
I wish I could explain better how I "see" and understand my beliefs about these perspectives. Time does play a role but not in the way we normally think of time. Time plays a role in how long it takes for us to grow, change, adapt, learn, etc, and I think that whether we're in this life, or another, or alive or dead, it doesn't matter. I think we have many avenues in which we can learn and do what we need to. We have options. That's what I believe. So reincarnation is just one of those options.
What I'm more interested in than anything else, if I could know anything I wanted to know...is that I'd like to know the reasons I came into this life and have had the experiences I've had, both bad and good. I'm the kind of person who believes there's a reason for everything, and we choose which lessons we want to learn, and we'll keep repeating the same circumstances or situations until we learn. But I just want to know all the details about me on a soul level.
Does anyone else wonder those things? Maybe I don't really want to know all the answers!