Focus 69 wrote on Jun 14th, 2017 at 1:21pm:@ Vicky; To sum up you dont make contact yourself but use the intermediary of your "helper" right ?
(I still dont know what to do with the helper topic as Albert told me the imagination priming method of the helper advised by Moen could lead to a confusion between true NPR (non-physical realm) events and imagination...And as i already made contact with an helper with the help of imagination i am a bit circumspect... ^^)
@ Morrighan; i would like to say that i realize my misunderstanding about your "field integrity" is confirmed once again here with Vicky and is all my fault due to my bad english, again sorry for this my dear !
Focus 69,
Depending on what I'm trying to do, I will use different methods and means of communication. Think of ANY method as being a "means of communication".
If I want to do some work on an energy level and be noninvasive, then I use my method I described above. In essence it's me communicating with someone else via my spirit and their spirit. The use of that "channel" only means to me that I myself as a human being (with needs, wants, emotions, limited perception, etc). is not infringing unfairly on someone else. I view my Guidance as having a much greater line of sight than me. For instance, my Guidance knows the future, I don't. My Guidance knows what the outcome of my actions will be, I don't.
If I do want to try and make direct contact with someone, I still may not "have the power" to do that without the aid of my Guidance (higher-self, helpers, etc), or without the allowance of the other person's spirit. This to me is just being polite. It's never my intention to cause harm or take advantage or impose my will on another person.
I think you're really overthinking the "helper" concept, and that's ok. It's best just to practice and see what your experience is like using a helper. It doesn't need to work for everyone, it's just a mechanism.
It's like this: I've been psychic all my life. Growing up and for many years I wondered who was responsible for giving me psychic information? Where did it come from? Who decided what things I get psychic information about?
Then I came to realize, understand, and accept that it doesn't matter to me "who" if anyone is responsible. I didn't like to chalk it up to being God, angels, special spiritual beings, supreme beings, etc. That didn't make sense to me anyway. What made sense to me was that in the bigger picture of the totality of my consciousness, there are parts of me where that information comes from. I don't know all those other parts of my consciousness. For now, I am only aware of the part of my consciousness that is Vicky living this physical life right now. But I believe that I have a greater existence that is more than this physical part of me. I use the visual of taking a slice out of a pizza. That one slice is me in this physical lifetime, but I am the whole entire pizza. What those other parts are doing or what they know, I'm not sure right now. But I trust in Me. I trust in my higher self. That's my belief. That's what I use when I say "my Guidance".
I'm also open to believing that there are other beings from other consciousnesses, who may be helping me. Maybe dead relatives. We can call them angels or whatever else you want to call them. So when I use the concept of a "helper", it's not important to me "who" or "where" it comes from...other than the fact that I ALWAYS do any work in the name of being for my highest good, for the other person's highest good, and with the love, guidance, and protection that I've always known my entire life. I've had some pretty darn amazing experiences that defy logic and physics...and I can't explain nor prove them. But at least I know that some amazing stuff is possible in this world, in my life, and I trust that. It's what works for me.
Simply put, you could use the concept of a Helper in a similar way. Think of it as You allowing yourself to receive the aid, help, and guidance of something greater than you are aware of in your present perception, and in doing so you are opening up your belief that such help and guidance is possible, helpful, from a good source, and for the best intentions. In this way you are creating the ability to allow yourself to push past the blockage of the unknown and allowing yourself to experience things that are beyond the limits of your normal current perception. It may really help propel you in your abilities. Or it might not be what works for you. All you can do is experiment. There's no right or wrong about it.