Hey Seraphis,
Has anything changed? I hope he's not getting frustrated with not being able to do puzzles.
Quote:sort of like leave them along and they will come home wagging their tails behind them
that's a nice way to put it
From your first post I got the impression that he's a grumpy old man who thinks that once in his life something worked out for him. I would like him to enjoy that before hitting him with news and changes.
He probably feels comfortable around you because he's known you for [put right number here] years. I'm sure for him that's a good enough reason to stay around you. (A man like him would never tell you that he likes you, so I'll show some respect and won't tell you that either
) And he might sense that you feel his presence; around others he probably feels like he's being ignored.
Btw, after my grandmother died, she hung around for a couple of days, checking on everybody, just to see how they're doing.
Some spirits just don't seem to be in a hurry, they'll all go to "heaven" sooner or later anyway.
take care,
Vagabound