Does anyone know, what is the highest realm in which you can have sex

Well, since sex by definition requires some type of body, I'd say the highest realm you can have sex is the highest realm in which you are still able to manifest the illusion of having a body form.

First of all, how do you define such a thing?

For some people, the most wonderful sensation possible for them would be to simply hold someone's hand, or to be hugged....

For others, I certainly would not be able to say.

Anyone?

Hi Sex is overated,i would rather have a curry and rice,but if it was Frank Sinatra then i would skip the curry,i have heard though that in the spirit world ,you can have what they call a union of two souls,its like sex on the earth but different in the spiritworld.

Love and God bless    love juditha

you can have what they call a union of two souls,its like sex on the earth but different in the spiritworld.

If you do it right, you can have that here, too.

Sounds like we have different opinions on what is sex and what is sexuality.  Sounds like some are defining it as physical and some as spiritual.  For me, it always begins with the mind.  For instance, you can imagine a great sexual experience and even reach orgasm without having physical sex.  Two minds can do this together as well.  So I guess then another way to ask the question could be, is there a level at which you lose the desire for sex? 

You know what they say, when there's a will there's a way.

Lust is one kind of energy, love is a completely different kind of energy. You can't live completely according to love if you also want to live according to lust. Lust is a part of our selve survival instinct. It is self serving.

Because people mistake themselves for bodies, they try to get close to each other through sexual activity. You can only merge completely with another at the spirit level. Body based activity has nothing to do with merging with another, even though people sometimes set up such parameters in their minds. The place where we feel love, our awareness, is the very same place that we merge with each other.

If we want to find where true happiness, peace and love come from, we have to be willing to let go of some of our attachments. If we believe we can obtain what we really want by clinging, we are only fooling ourselves. A big part of spiritual growth is being willing to let go so we can find out about greater ways of being.

Either we can love one person/soul sort of a lot, or we can love all people/souls completely.

The spirit beings I've made contact with don't have physical bodies, and therefore, they don't have sexual organs.

I'm getting into conversation a little late but I would like to get back to the original question. I have, both in dream and oob, had sex and it was exactly that. I could feel and taste another human body and it was as real as anything I have done in my waking life. As to the highest level? I do not know. Do we lose interest in such things on the other side? I do not know - but I have indeed experienced sex in "Otherwhere" as Kurt Leland coins it, and it is a fascinating experience.