Of course.  But remember that both of you may need to follow a different path eventually for growth purpose. 

From Bruce's books, Bob Monroe is still with his loved one in the afterlife. 

Justine:

Since the spirit World is guided by love I don't believe that you need to worry. Events will work out as they need to work out.

oh and by the way, after three and a half years together, we talk all the time about how much we have helped each other grow
she is grateful to me for helping her recover her spirituality, and i to her for helping teach me that love for both people and causes is hard work

Mark, There is the possibility that they may all end up together. There may be a connection between all of you, spiritually. Love is an extremely powerful bond. I think one of the most important statements in your post was your acceptance of her love towards her first husband. The one who is not your Dad. It should also be noted that it is not necessarily important for them to meet up at all in the afterlife. Some or perhaps all of them may well be incarnated again with new or more pressing needs than to revisit this earthly existence.
Joe

Well said Joe. My wife recently came across a picture of her and her first husband, who is also the father of her first born son who I love and am very proud of. I insisted she display it with our other family pictures. I do not in any way feel threatened by this person and would very much like to meet him in the here after. Maybe you are correct, perhaps I have already met him and have some eternal bond. We will see...

I wonder of the significance of reincarnation. Is the reason we continue to come back and redo the ELS  for us, or for the bigger picture? Personally, as my new overview regarding the ELS is about service, thanks in part to programs at TMI, I no longer feel that this lifetime is about me, nor have any of the past lifetimes. They and this one have been about how I have effected others and the changes that have resulted in my actions. Some better, some not so good. But if I was to decide that I was not prepaired to offer my assistance in the ELS then my incarnation would be of little importance. I beleave you do not come to earth and pick up one of these bodies in an effort to better yourself, but as a means of bettering others of your disk group and towards those who are in need of assistance. To say you do not want to come back is fine and many times i have said the same thing. Is experiencing the ELS for us? Or for others? I hope that all of us who no longer desire existing in the ELS again have completed their reasons for being here in the first place as once you step out of the line you may find it difficult to come back and complete or gather any missing parts. I think I will hang around as long as it takes to finish what is required of me. We may well be towards a pinacel of spiritual awareness and transformation on this little wet world. If its not going to happen this round of my many lives it just might be the next one. Most likely, only once this physical life is over, will I know if I have done what is nessassary for continued movement by the All of me. Personally, I will make my desision then.
Joe