I shall give you a more solid example of hate arising in a loving person, because there are mental laws applicable:

Now, the EXAMPLE:
A child sees one of his parents suffer due to illness.
The child loves his parents. The parents love each other. There is enough love here for everybody. Money is secundary. These are simple people who simply want to help.

The parents are caring people, not just for their child, but they would help anybody. They are also always asked for help. The child looks up to his parents. He wants to be like them: helping and loving.

A parent is sick. The other parent has to work full time to support the cost of housing, school, medication = basic needs.
The sick parent looses his job: this parent is too sick, the company he/she works for has financial problems.

The one parent who is sick and lost his job, tries to find another job. (That's not easy when you are sick) He finds a job in the black-market, gets exploited and loses more money to it.

In this materialistic world, both parents are viewed as losers. I mean, they don't earn enough, one of them lost their jobs. The house is not OK. When they are invited to the restaurant or the movies, they cannot pay for this. They cannot participate into social life, due to money issues. This means they lose social status. But they lost more than that.

A loser, is not necessarily loved AND they lost their social life. The more time passes, the less contact they have. The people that asked for their help, ask help to someone else. The people that asked for their help, are not necessarily people that will give help.

The parents end alone with the child. The sick parent feels guilty to be such a weight on the family-life. To make it less hard, he/she does not complaint. Therefore, the situation of his/her health get underestimated. The situation worsens. There are tensions in the family. Everybody is tired due to worries and stress. Nobody talks at home, because everyone is too tired and trying to mentally survive.

When the parents are talking, it is generally about problems.

There is no money. The child grows up with worries, is not given much more allowance than necessary, but not enough to participate decently with the activities of friends. Adolescents and children can be crual. The child ends up socially rejected bu his friends.

The parents feel stressed about the life of their child. They want a better life for their child, but cannot give it. The parents educate their child to be more ambitious than they have been, to stop this suffering.

Also, they live in quarters were there is a lot of criminality. They got 8 time the burglars in their house.

Lets resume: What is the situation of this child in this loving family?
- stress
- no follow up by the parents (to busy with sickness, working, etc) --> means no followed up education --> means potential behavioral problems
- no talking
- no social control
- no social participation
- no sense of security
- you have to give help and understanding, but are not given any back --> no sense of social justice, you cannot count on others to help you out
- teaching to be ambitious
- social rejection = means you are not taught PUL
- no freedom --> you cannot decide what you do during the day: you work and that's it
- what social laws are taught to the child: losers do not get loved, people who cannot follow the social life lose friends and relationships, without friends and relationships their is not social control

I don't think that is a good mix. I mean, the situation creates a feel bad-atmosphere already.

You don't see much examples of love, outside the parents.
Those signs of love between the parents are diminished, because they are tired, sick, etc. You spent more time surviving mentally, then being loving.

Let's talk about that surviving mentally:
- you barely see the love through the sickness and the working situation
- you see that when you cannot be everything expected, you are not valued socially
-you don't know better than the above situation, you don't know how to solve it, you don't know what to do

In the end, when you don't know better, than the above situation.

--> not being able to find solutions to problematic situations, is a cause for DESPAIR or lack of hope [color=#ff0000]+

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and you have everything what you need to create hate, fear, anger and any other negative emotion you can think off

and it all started in a loving family.

No suppose that child was to desperate and discouraged to seek solutions OR did not belief there was any solution OR was not gifted with imagination
Then that child would remain in that area of thinking OR
as you call it, that child would remain in that BELIEF-SYSTEM.
--> That is a future victim to be stuck in hell

You belief what you know. If all you know is misery, than that is all you belief.

This means you can get stuck because of a life situation, and without social control, nobody knows about it.

Considering the above statement, let's suppose the child falls in a hateful state of mind: hate = more fear = more unhappiness = less friends = judgements on hateful behavior

Nobody helps you out that state of mind in this reality. You're all alone, because people judge you. It ends up becoming a vicious circle.

SONIA