George and all,
Below is an interesting link that gives a few answers to your question
http://www.victorzammit.com/week2/WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE DIE? What form are we going to have in the afterlife? Highly credible information transmitted from the afterlife states that, “… You will have all the senses that will enable you to recognize others. You will have the entire spiritual apparatus which is necessary to function in our world. You will have form, you will have shape, you will have individuality … What you must appreciate is that to you matter is solid and tangible, and spirit is shadowy an insubstantial. In our world spirit is the reality, is tangible and matter is the shadowy and the insubstantial. You do not have any of the apparatus to make you speak because you do not have to speak. All our communication is done by thought. We send our thoughts to one another and we are able to communicate as a result. Thought is a reality in our world. Everything that exists is created out of thought. And thus you can have whatever you deem necessary for as long as you want it ….” (S.B.).
JAMES VAN PRAAGH ON WHAT HAPPENS AFTER DEATH? Top American medium James answers these questions:
Do Heaven and Hell really exist?
How do I get into Heaven or Hell?
Who will I see in the afterlife?
What will happen to me after I die?
Will I be able to see how people react when I die?
Will I come back to earth again after I die?
What's it like to be a spirit?
What's the life lesson you've learned from communicating with the dead?
RUSSIAN SCIENTIST RETURNS FROM DEATH AFTER 3 DAYS. Prior to his NDE Dr George Rodonaia worked as a neuropathologist. He was also an avowed atheist. However after being hit by a car he underwent one of the most extended cases of a near-death experience ever recorded. Pronounced dead he was left for three days in the morgue. He did not "return to life" until a doctor began to make an incision in his abdomen as part of an autopsy procedure. Watch as discusses how what experienced for himself transformed all his so-called scientific beliefs. (6 mins).