LaffingRain
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Bets, the wording of this sentence is a little funny..
Do you think of other reasons for not offerring others the healing qualities of PUL?
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it doesn't make sense, I think because it implies a negative, maybe we can reword to imply a positive direction.
previous training is just programmed software in the mind.
I know some believe no pain no gain.
but there's another stratosphere beyond the no pain no gain thesis; it's called "I've had enough, and I ain't gonna take anymore."
pain, guilt, recrimination, judgment, coerciveness, there does come a day we can get beyond all those negations and then it becomes impossible, truly impossible to suffer, and pain on the body even becomes controllable, even if we are at that point exiting for spiritual dimension.
I don't believe in bad people existing; just folks with tunnel vision or stuck in a certain viewpoint.
PUL does make things much clearer, by expanding awareness outside of one's belief system.
ok, now I understand the negative implied statement. I think the form of PUL sending is not up to our C1 self, but in the hands of a higher intelligence.
but you can sometimes offer PUL over and over, and there are some are still not going to be able to receive it, due to whatever their beliefs are, or their focus points.
the most loving thing to do in that case is allow them their beliefs unless they directly ask for help, or love, or understanding, then you know they can receive it, as they thought of asking for it.
It's another way of saying to be tolerant of other's beliefs so we can all live together and not be coercive in our viewpoint, as everyone feels they are "right."
but if everyone is right, then of course, no one is wrong, and no need to be enforcing another level of spiritual growth on them that they may not be ready for.
I just don't think any of us are in control as much as we would like to think we are..we must trust inner guidance, that we are perfectly advancing just as we are.
adding some more thoughts later: about the question can we think of a reason NOT to offer PUL?
yes. for instance, when a monster was threatening my existence in the astral, I did not blow kisses at it. I just stood my ground and did not believe it was true, that I was a less powerful than it, a victim. standing still and looking it square in the eyes was effective to obliterate it's existance, after all, I had created the thing for my own learning.
but sometimes we are told to send PUL to what is threatening us and some of us are so advanced, it just comes naturally that they do it.
others, like me, have to work on it, and even define PUL energy a bit, get used to feeling it, learn how to send, where to send, what form to send it in, etc. ask for guidance that is there, spirit does not sluff off on the job.
in some difficult relationships, there are cases where one expects PUL to come in a certain recognizable form, this is conditional love.
PUL is unconditional, meaning, it just comes out and nobody knows whether theres any return on it; not in C1, can we expect anything really. usually, PUL offered brings a like response. and what goes around comes around.
the ego has a penchant for measuring the stuff. who can truly measure it? if the ego is measuring, they are reporting their cup is half empty rather than half full; they expect others to fill their cup up.
nobody owes anyone PUL here..if the way is not shown to freely offer PUL, by spirit, then the dilemma falls upon the one who has all the expectations of gain.
PUL is not a business exchange like that. a little PUL goes a very long way in repercussions. it has a way of changing the world, but you do not see the changes immediately.
My question to spirit would be most often, how may I serve this person in the best possible way? and then trust whatever answer spirit returns, and in some cases, we must be patient.
the main thing is not to interfere in anothers growth into their own fullness...and I have been known in previous lives to interfere with someone else's perfect growth pattern..so now I only listen to spirit, and this has relieved me of making errors.
also, those dreams....they certainly show me what the future would be, should I make certain moves in a certain direction, by trying to decide what's best for me.
I've learned by now, I have no idea what's best for me, nor what's best for another. nor can we be sure our offering of PUL is a pure one, which holds the other in highest good.
I'd think 100% honesty is the only way to go. unfortunately, humans are not made to be 100% honest, so honesty is not offered to those who are not able to be honest, who cannot come out and ask for love, when you know they are asking, but they are using cover words, expecting the other to swing wide the gates of honesty for them.
you simply can't put words in another's mouth, the more you do this, the easier it is to be deceived by what you want to believe, not what is truly offered. in a duality thought system, we don't get it. we say one thing, yet we mean something else.
the way to offer PUL, my way of thinking, just say the first thing that pops up in your head, so long as it is a positive feeling and intention of sharing a truth. and this based on what they said to you.
if all they speak of is the weather, that's all you can speak of also.
I love this thread over here about healing, because then we can talk about how PUL heals.
personally, I've had people say they love you, and then turn around, offer a judgment upon you, and explain they are only judging you for your own good. that's like beating someone up then saying they had it coming. scary. Whats a little more scarey, is, this person portrays themself as someone else other than who they really are.
then they also purport that the truth they deliver comes from outside themselves, implying that makes it 100% reliable.
how is honesty and PUL supposed to reveal itself under such circumstance of masquerade? u cannot make yourself right by helping someone out to make them wrong.
what we can do, is only speak for ourselves. another's pathways is their business.
we will never change another. we can only change ourselves, then tell how we did it just by sharing.
until, they know who and what they really are. they must always hide themselves. it's a shame, because I think at our core, we are beautiful shining beings! no need to hide anything. we just have these very gnarly belief systems in place that we are sure we know what's good for others...
anything that's a lie, will just disintegrate in time.
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