recoverer wrote on Jan 14th, 2008 at 8:17pm:I agree that a person should find a way to make certain that what he or she experiences is bonified, rather than imagined.
I agree as well, but at the time, it's rather limiting to want and to expect this to come in only in a very left brain kind of way.
As you have mentioned before using different words and expressions, sometimes our feelings are a good indicator of the truthfulness, and expansiveness of a particular experience and consciousness state. Like your night in Heaven experience, why would you doubtfully question the veracity of same, if you were so filled with joy, peace, and deep knowing that it was truthful?
Feelings are rather hard to quantify, measure, and label precisely, and so those who are constantly looking for verification in both their own Retrieval endeavors, and in relation to others, may only rarely find what they are looking for. Sure, there is hard core verifiable data out there to collect, but not everyone is equipped to consistently provide it, because oft that depends a good part on their innate balance between Yin-Yang, Feminine-Masculine, and Right brain-Left brain aspects.
I've experienced a lot of more left brain type verifications in relation to guidance, this is because i've had a lot of "precognitive" psychic experiences. But at the same time, i'm not worried about verification because i trust more than not at this point.
That trust, faith, and belief in, is something that Jesus himself talked quite a bit about the importance of if one wanted to open up to Kingdom of Heaven within/without. He didn't approach others like Don does saying constantly, "you must be skeptical of everything, must question everything and only believe after you get material, left brain specific, hard data verifications on your experiences."
Sure, he advised using discrimination, and he didn't tell us to throw out the left brain aspect, but he never advised to concentrate on it. The left brain's job is to perceive and act upon the differences in Creation. And since the physical dimension is so polarized and so based on differences (too much so), the left brain can become very materially minded, very narrow and overly critical in nature.
Sometimes to gain a balance, we have to temporarily shift more to the right brain and Heart aspect, and (only temporarily) give up that super critical, concentrate on differences, side of us.
Sometimes we have to get more in touch with our feeling nature, especially us men and maybe especially American men and some others (many cultures degrade the Feminine and the feeling nature, but certain ones are more brutal than others in smashing it out of young boys.)
Once we have learned the state of "Heartness", of a more pure right brain approach, then we can go back and ever more merge the the left and right brain, head and heart aspects.
One of the differences between Jesus and spiritual/religious teachers of his day who for the most part, many did not like him one iota, was that Jesus was in touch with his Feminine feeling nature, and better yet was very balanced and merged between the two.
Whereas the Pharisees, Sadducee's, Scribes, etc. many seemedl over polarized to the Masculine, and operated too much from the left brain aspects of self. Too structured and rigid, and Yang/Masculine if overly concentrated on can become too structured. Yin/Feminine is more flowing and receptive, we don't want to become purely Yin, but we ever need a balance between same.
Don, i don't mean to say this in a judgmental way (i'm not feeling any ill feelings towards you when i say this), but i sense that you are way too overly polarized to the masculine and to the left brain, and in regards to certain approaches and emphasis's, you are not exactly teaching what Jesus himself taught.
If you are a student of same, shouldn't you have a similar emphasis and attitude? I feel that if you got more in touch with your receptive feeling and Feminine nature, and foster a greater balance, you would understand that one doesn't have to have verifications only in a data, left brain kind of way, that one can definitely feel the truth or not of an experience via their feeling nature if they are clearly receptive and balanced enough.
But, it helps a person to have a belief in this beforehand, this helps to open them up to that kind of reality and way of being. You don't absolutely need it, as some of Albert's experiences have shown, but it definitely does help on average and in a more consistent sense.