Hi Vajra, thanks for reading me and your compliment. its great to have a family atmosphere here and I thank Pleione for bringing up a hard to talk about subject.

It feels awful when bad things seem to happen to good people. our heart goes out to each other..but if feels so much worse to think we are helpless creatures in the face of Murphys law, say. if we want to be in control of our fate, to be saying we do indeed create our own reality, then it just boils down to it was that we needed to learn on a soul level how it was exactly that something that feels so bad happened to us. this way one never need fear being a victim, if they can get to the point of truly believing we do create our own reality, its just that the higher self and the human here need to constantly keep up a steady communication, or like the religious ones would say, to pray without ceasing, to me, same thing to be communing with higher self purpose of gaining Earth experience.

also its so interesting to be reading Destiny of Souls, to see, why, when in the subconscious mind, as well Newton explains there is a superconscious mind which holds the other life memories, its so interesting to see how an accident, what we call an accident, is created on the soul level for a certain purpose of growth of that soul as well the other soul/s involved.

love, alysia

Excellent point, Kyo. Thanks!
dave