well, hmm. if u hear a train running over your vertebrae dont get frightened! I'm not kidding it sounded just like a frieght train but it was really a minor adjustment being done!
yes, reading helps a lot, as it gives you a comparison value, somewhere to start.
I suggest Bruce Moen's first book to start explorations, or even Robert Monroe's books. Bruce doesn't do obes, theres a better way to do it called phasing or using the imagination to "get there." however, if you're mind is made up that you want obes, theres a lot of people talking about obes specifically on Robert Bruce's website, you can google it.
out of body experiences are fine but I'm 60 years old now and started out doing obes when I was a kid. now it's changed into something better because of the knowledge I've gained about this area. so it will change for you too as the more you study different experiences to see where you want to go with it.
you might want to get a partner and see if you can project to each other's place. its always easier with a partner. two heads are better than one.
well good luck and don't be afraid, the only thing out there appears to be your own mind and thoughts in a form. love, alysia