In my own opinion it is a matter of awareness.
Suppose one person has a particular way of unclothing themselves. First, they ALWAYS take off their shoes. They place them in a certain place every time. Then the shirt comes off, button by careful button and hung carefully in place. Then....well, you get the picture. Very methodical.
Another person has different ways of unclothing themselves every single time. One shoe may be thrown off. The shirt pulled off and landing on the floor somewhere inside out. ZING goes the bra over to the other side of the room...............well, you get the picture. Just get me out of these things, says she!
So perhaps the afterlife is like this. Some people shed what is unreal about themselves very quickly and come to full understanding of where they came from with little prodding and even a lack of elegance which is annoying to some others.
Others feel they must make their way to the Source step by step. It is their Way.
Both people may seem amazingly similar in characteristics aside from those observed here. Both may be equally intelligent, equally well versed in spiritual knowledge.
Or they may be equally "evil" according to our standards here in our societies.
In other societies in different times, however, such characteristics which they possessed, the inner characteristics by which we judge them, may have caused them to be considered heroes, almost god-like in their abilities.
So, it is difficult for me to come to terms with broad statements about what is "evil" because so many people are influenced by the circumstances in which they develop. For instance, it is proven that in an experimental situation, people will continue to give a person whom they do not know greater and greater electric shocks, to the point of dire pain. Although they do not know the shocks are NOT real, they believe them to be real in the experiment.
It takes little encouragement for them to do so, and it is, sadly, a common characteristic of the people involved in such an experiment.
So, I am trying to take a more distant view of these situations, to try to imagine what could have cause these situations to occur.
It is doubtless important that as a world community we establish new standards for what is humane, for what human beings deserve and we are sadly contradictory in all that we teach and do.
Why would it be any different in the afterlife, in those places which may be further from the Source from which we all came......
I think that it is not a matter of belief as DaBears fears, not always, but simply a matter of how one sheds one's clothes....
this "reality" we experience here, and the "reality" that we perceive there.
love, blink