Are we aware of our passing into spirit?Also can we atay around untill the body is disposted off?George

I am one of those people who does retrievals in their sleep. A lot of people do but don't realize it. They are always in my apartment waiting beforehand. I am aware of it and I usually talk to them before I go to sleep after communicating with guidance about them.
Most don't realize they're dead. Actually, they're not dead they just don't have a body anymore, but anyway, most don't realize it. Most passed at least a year prior, sometimes four or five year before they're with me. This is because people have varying degrees of lucidity than others, esp. their perception of physical reality. Problem also is, their perception of spiritual reality isn't too great, either. They are kinda in-between. I know this because most have been passed on for at least a year and don't realize it, yet they can't perceive their guides, either. With the majority who aren't aware of their passing, I'm the first one to tell them the news. Only one has reacted poorly by taking off and not coming back. A few have been very sad and I've had to talk to them some more, but most are ok with it. When I say 'ok' I don't mean happy; I mean not freaking out. I have not ever gotten one that was happy to have passed. Maybe relieved, but never happy. Usually anxious because of belief system indoctrination or simply not knowing what happens next.

I think also their sense of time is different. I get that their perception is that much less time has passed than what we perceive.

Some know. A very few know and know why they are with me without me having to tell them anything, which is surprising.

Now my retrievals are not representative of all who've passed because they are with me for a reason, that is, they need to be taken to F27 or a BST. That means they didn't go on their own, which is says something about them and their awarenss and attachmenat to and focus on physical reality.

I've run into others where I've lived and been who know full well they've passed, they just don't want to leave.

The short answer is it depends on the person. Usually those who come to me after a long illness know they've passed. Children almost always know. I even get children WITH their parents and it's the child who is trying to convince the parents who don't believe, or one spouse knows and the other doesn't believe.

What's also interesting is that they ALWAYS believe me. That I can't figure out because I'm usually, but not always, a stranger to them. But two questions I used to always ask their guides is "Did they understnad everything I said?" and "Do they believe me?" The answers were ALWAYS yes so I quit asking.

From what I've read, they almost always are there for their funeral, but don't usually care about the body. It's more about concern for grieving loved ones and so on.

Love,
Rob

Thanks rob for the information.But dont they try to contact the living after dieing,and if they dont get any response,would they know than they must have died. George

Very, very cool Roger. I love this.

Love, Mairlyn

Hey Roger and everyone else.

I've been posting briefly off and on for 2 years. I'm under a new screenname. My name is Ryan and I'm 24. Im going to cut right to the chase. Your post spoke to me in a weird way. For the past five years Ive questioned whether or not I could be dead. I've always turned a blind eye to the signs and messages that have lead to a answer that is not that happy. Am I dead?

findingalight wrote on Sep 19^th, 2006 at 9:48pm:



Hi Ryan. this question comes up once in awhile. in a sense the spirit world thinks we are the dead ones here while they are more alive than us!  but that doesn't answer your question. you can look at it philosophically. from the moment of birth we begin to  die. cells die everyday as they die they are replaced by new cells and that is what is known as life. so whether you are dead or alive, then we share your world the same. welcome back. I notice you can use the internet and find yourself here. thats a very good sign that 1) both of us are alive or 2) both of us are dead and just dreaming we are alive.    but you are right...its a very good thing to know if you are dead or alive. love, alysia

Alysia,

I'm not sure what you mean by portal. I get them every day, without fail, except when I go away for two weeks for my National Guard training each year. It's not up to me. Their guides bring them or they have an energetic attraction to me. Usually it's their guides. I've actually only known a couple of them. One guy, I had a conversation with twenty years ago, and he remembered me, and there he was.

The conversation is usually one way. After I get the basics of the person from their guide, I give them a speel, a short one which tells them they've gone through a change, everything's going to be great, who I am, ect.  The long speel, rarely given, tells them everything, focus 27 and all that. I have difficulty hearing them, so I'm the one who usually does the talking. Although I had one cantankerous old man tell me I should quit my tobacco habit, ect. One woman, who was ill for a long time, told me that it's been a long time since she's seen a man with his shirt off, I look good, like, ohmygod I'm being flirted with by a dead woman. She can't possibly have a sex drive anymore, perhaps it's the memory of a sex drive or she's nervous or she's manipulative out of habit. Anyway, such communication is rare.

Most aren't actually happy to see me. They usually are nervous, not usually knowing who I am or why they're with me. And most don't know they've passed.

Thanks.
Love,
Rob

Alysia, she's long gone, but then I can look her up when I pass over. It just occured to me that I could set myself up for endless dates on the other side when I pass over! I think my twin soul might have some thing to say about that..anyway, I appreciate you reading my posts. You are one of the wisest people on this board and I pay attention to what you write.

Love,
Rob