Here you ignore the well-grounded consensus of modern psychology. People who loathe themselves are generally angry at those who contributed to their low self-esteem. Their hang-outs inhibit them from expressing altruism. In any case, your example is irrelevant to your point. There is no reason to believe that the fat lady hated herself as well as her appearance. Conversely, her self-absorbed vanity after her weight loss is best understood as a function of lingering insecurities rather than as an indictment of the value of a healthy self-esteem.
You are judging her, based upon you believing - that she believed there was more then this mortal coil, she hated herself - because shey could'nt stop eating - which affected her appearance and health, and ultimately this lesson made her humble, until she lost the weight, to which she went on an ego trip.
(1) The biblical God voluntarily surrendered complete control of the universe to enhance its unpredictability. So much of our pain is beyond God's micromanagement. You have no objective grounds for blaming God for this unpredictability. God is love in the sense that He fulfils His promises and has acted in Christ for our benefit. But God is not love in your limited anthropomorphic sense.
ive never heard this, - god can heal people he choose's from the description of your own miracles. so he must still have control. which takes us back to god not loving all his children equally, for he would bend the rules for some, and leave the others.
(2) As a result of God's surrender of complete control over creation, our freely chosen future is flexible, not predetermined. According to the Bible, our preliminary destiny can be altered in response to our prayers, faith, and faithful service, but these changes in response to our desperately expressed needs may not be positive when we challenge God's revealed will.
is there any evidence to support that god is not in control anymore?, and faith,pray, and service dont seem to do anything - as i said with the man's dieing wife, 15,000 people prayed for her, and she still died.
For example, Hezekiah, one of Israel’s greatest kings, becomes mortally ill and is told by the prophet Isaiah that God decrees this illness as the vehicle for his predestined death (see Isaiah 38). But in a moment of weakness, Hezekiah bitterly intercedes with God to extend his life. Through Isaiah, God reveals that the script has now been changed and that Hezekiah will be granted 15 more years. But the moral of the story is this: be careful what you ask for; you just may get it. In those 15 years, Hezekiah gives birth to a son, Manasseh, who turns out to be one of Israel’s most evil kings. In retrospect, it seems preferable that Hezekiah would have gracefully accepted his death at the scripted time. That way, Israel would have been spared the evil reign of Manasseh.
god, could have changed those events - he extended hezekiah life, he could have just warned him that his son was going to grow up crooked, and that he should do a b and c to stop it happening. childs play, compared with healing a terminally ill man.
Yet sometimes God can use even our poor decisions to accomplish a great purpose (Romans 8:28). The story of Joseph is the story of how immoral acts that God never intended were blended into a divine plan to preserve Israel’s ancestors and save Egypt from mass starvation in a time of famine. Joseph's brothers were rightfully displeased by his egotistical flaunting of his self-aggrandizing dreams. But they were wrong to sell him into slavery and then lie about it to their father Jacob. Still, in Joseph’s later dramatic reunion with his brothers, he implies that God molded the consequences of these immoral acts into a glorious purpose. As Joseph puts it, “Even though you intended to harm to me, God intended it for good, in order to preserve a numerous people (Genesis 50:20).” Much of how all this works admittedly remains mysterious, but this mystery does not disprove God's loving nature.
that could be interpreted as, god went past free will, and made joseph's brother's commit the act. if god interfered with joesph, to change human events - does'nt that mean he's interfearing with the free will of many humans ?
Here you totally miss the point. Moral beliefs may be based on instinct, education, and cultural conditioning. The real issue is this: what makes right actions right and binding? Without God, you cannot explain why I should not violate your moral rules and rape and pillage whenever doing so makes me happy and I can get away with it. If you reply, "If everyone did that, the world would be reduced to a living Hell!", I might reply: "True, but not everyone will follow my lead. So I can rape and pillage and still live a satisfying life. If I don't get caught, you have nothing morally meaningful to say that should restrain me."
Right action is, action based upon rules which the rest of society lives by. it's the typical athiests, will go around raping and pillaging, without god argument. but society/community determine which course of action is right, and to your question of what stop's you from raping and pillaging, society does, peer pressure - simple advantage of numbers. it worked before god came into our minds. human survival is based upon our intelligence and our ability to work in groups - it always has been, therefore most of us are programmed to do whats best for the group, this creates order, and civilisation. it's like many pack animals, dolphins dont go around saying im gonna kill another dolphin does that mean that god has given them morals, or is it a mear bi-product of evolution programming instructions, saying to survive we must unite ?.
You bet! Without God, morality lacks any objective grounds for accountability.
evolution has programmed us, with accountability, as it has done with many species.
No, I never denied God omnipotence. Biblically speaking, the word means"the power to do anything that is actually possible [not logically possible]." So His power cannot be exaggerated. There is no basis for an comparison with some other being who can do what God cannot.
if i ask god to materialise me a sports car, and he does'nt, does'nt that mean, he cant do something - because, if he does'nt choose to materialise me a sports car, he makes me unhappy - so it would be beyond his ability's to make me happy.god is all loving, yet he shows me no love - to which i can directly benefit from now. which would lead me to, god cannot make me happy, so dont exagerate the claims that he loves all his children, because if he did - he would have materialised me a new sports car.
Here you are being disingenous. I challenged you to perform an extended series of prayer experiences and you declined. To experience God's love, all you have to do is imeet His conditions. God honors His biblical promises and many on this site, myself included, have powerfully experienced His love. You can too.
you see, you say i should pray to god, but in my heart i know i would'nt believe he was there - and that i would just be talking with myself. should god not prove to me, that he has value ?, and as such is worth of me putting my beliefs into him. in the bible it says, if you pray god can move mountains - has anyone you have ever known had a mountain moved for them? theres been times in my life, as with probley most people - to which i could have used a little divine intervention, and yet like most people god left me to rot. if my child was in pain, i would do everything in my power to make it better, not just stand by and say - i'll help you only when you pray to me!.
Craig