well, guess we are all learning stuff, right? the sense of humor, you're right, it's different for everyone. I learned about that when I found out one day, I was the only one laughing at my own jokes the gentle touch works well in most cases to do retrievals...

Chris,

You two are obviously connected. What that means now is anyone's guess. That is the problem. I would either learn to communicate with your guide(s) or seek out someone who can for you. You guidance will know who you are, what you are, and what you are here to do, including your relationship with your ex. You will most likey be told just what you need to know, but nothing else. But that itself is a big help.

I was recently is a similiar situation. I was with someone whose energy I could feel as real as anything physical. No one has ever, ever been like her, and I had several girlfriends in my twenties and a fairly long marraige. She had, and still has, a profound effect on me.  I found out why we were together and why we are not anymore. You need to find out if you two are finished with your agreement together or not. Mine and hers is completed, mostly. And my mate is not her. I found out just yesterday that my mate is nearby, some things about her, and where I will meet her and roughly when. This is helping me quite a bit.

Make sure your intentions are motivated by love, and keep asking questions and seeking the answers. You will find them. Do not let fear motivate you or influence your thoughts.

With love,
Bob