Hello SDC

I Guess that the main point when we die is that we do not change just because we’ve died. So if one is stubborn or violent or poet whatever one is, He/She will remain the same there.

The way they accept/understand what have happened to then will define the way they feel there. The way they feel there will define their conditions of being helped.
Some can easily be helped an others don’t (that’s the point were people here who deal with retrieves play an important role).

The ones who commit Suicide are usually the worst ones to help due to their emotional state but it doesn’t mean that your mother's uncle is instill at His former house.  He might had already been retrieved. About that subject I’m sure that a lot of people at this Forum can give you more valuable information.

PS: If you feel something bad just talk about it in loud voice in order to let whoever was there know that you have good intentions and would like to help, or simple pray asking to somebody help HE/SHE. Being calm is the very best way to deal with this kind of situation. But I Feel that you won’t have problems because if you would it probably had already been noticed by now

The guy who built my house had a heart attack in the garage and died.  He hangs out mostly in the cellar now.  He communicates with one of my children - they have a hilarious relationship.  I've only seen him once, she has seen him on numerous occassions.  Don't be afraid, ghosts won't hurt you.