Hi there. I've thought about how to create my own reality seriously starting in about the year 2000, I mean the question didn't come up until then...lol..must have been busy with other stuff.

so I would like to take your post and see what comes up for me in it point by point and I'm so glad you brought up these questions so thanks.
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Mathew said: it appears that there is a common idea that thought in the afterlife and indeed in our own physical reality can immediately translate into reality - perhaps more easily in the afterlife. In the writings of Jane Roberts, who used to channel ideas from an entity called "Seth," it was explicitly stated that although our physical reality runs under common rules and laws, our thoughts, both positive and negative tend to create our own realities.
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me: the way I see it, and I get my ideas also from reading books btw and anywhere else I can do that as well as experiences, my pov is that Seth is talking about 2 levels of reality making: 1) consensus agreement; ie: the world is flat.
2) the intention of the individual soul to manifest that intention into the area of physicality. this could be called "remembering who you are." your belief systems produce a particular viewing point or perception. the perception is only a perception and is not absolute reality. absolute reality cannot be established in science yet, and in our personal lives, if you find anything that is absolute and wholly true, please get back with me!
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Mathew:
For me, this concept is crucial to knowledge of the human soul and afterlife. If thought, intent and belief are translated immediately in the afterlife...
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me: I can say from my experience within retrievals and other sources of reading..that, and I am speaking only of those I have retrieved and also from an NDE, which told me something about what it feels like to be dead..that the thought process, on the first level of being dead, which I term astral level is vastly slowed down, thus the term "stuckness" that TMI gives us. moving parties to focus 27 gets the thought/entity moving again a little faster. only speaking of those who may not have belief nor paradigm built for what awaits for them on the other side.
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Mathew:
If thought makes our realities, then our state of mind in death/dying is crucial in order to pass on in an enlightened way.
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ok, that appears to be an absolutely correct remark and the reason I say this is because there are certain things I believe within the bible which is: every jot and tittle is accounted for, which means to me every thought you've ever had since day one is on file in the sky. every deed you have done likewise is on file. if you have hurt somebody intentionally, that too is on file, and u can bet that soul will let u know about it. (call it karma) hee. I can see this in my head; the hijackers getting this lecture never ending from the passengers of the airplane: well, you really flubbed that up, now didn't you????

u can bet in the afterlife, if there has been a perceived and unforgiven injustice to the least of these, that there are justice seekers creating the balance out there. thats their job. no one gets a free ride to heaven, whatever the heck heaven is. don't ask me!

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my sister didn't make it to heaven. I can only talk about my family connections here with any credibility, because you all have to experience your own reality or u won't believe anything someone tells you.

thats fine. I just work here

(hi Dave!) my sister died young around age 40. my sister never read much material or had any particular religious beliefs about the afterlife and she liked to hold grudges. so when she went to the other side she stayed on the astral planes, taking care of horses, she was good at that. she had certain expectations that she would enter the energy fields of those of her family and gather some support there, some love, some glad tidings perhaps. The thing I've learned about the afterlife is how important relationships are, whether there is forgiveness operating there. so she gravitated over to mother; they had parted on a sour note which happens..unfortunately, sis had appeared in her 12 yr.old appearance, for this we can do. sis had always been concerned with her looks, and she liked this age, for she surmised that at this age, mother had loved her and shared with her the most. so, rats, mom didn't recognize her! not being recognized made sis angry and some other phenonmenon happened around her expressions of frustration and anger and not receiving love or closure on the relationship. so all this is to say, we carry whatever our last thoughts, problems, feelings, creations, relationships, intentions, right into the death area. we're the same person and not instantly transformed into somebody we only wished we were. we make our own afterlife situation, in conjunction with others, but we do it here, not over there, faster growth is possible here, as it was so hard for sis to communicate with those in physical that she wished right away to make up for the hurt she caused us. she even came to me to try to make things right. I too, turned her away in my error, for she had disowned me long ago. some souls spend a lot of time trying to make things right, so that it is far better to make it right on the physical plane as it's so much easier to cross over with a clear conscious and no karma to drag around
