that is where I'm at in my understanding as well Mairlyn, that the personality is the new consciousness born here, but that the personality is not the totality of the being itself, but like a probe, to gather new experiences and bring those gifts back into the entire disc/whole, adding to the pot, as it were, or what is called the harvesting of loosh (god, I wish we had another reference point).
I wish to address to the question of reincarnation, that it can be seen to be for some both true and false. that when bleed thrus of various lives do come to the mind with detail and finesse, that these are meaningful to observe, in that these lives shown are not the same person as depicted in the images..these can be seen as experiences which happened to your twin sister or brother, a being so close to you, that you feel what they feel, you know them as well as yourself, just as my own twins, when I was spanking one (just a swat on the butt, ok?) the other twin at once hollared from another room of the house! I felt that! she said. they are like one person within a level of observation, yet with different personalities to express. they are joys to watch and learn by. this is perhaps a clue what these other lives may be like in terms of shared experiences.
from a religious viewpoint and I am not religious (this life, this personality)
we can take this topic and compare it to the bible where one person is sent into life with 2 talents, another with 3 talents, or gifts, and sometimes these talents in a spiritual sense are not used and so there cannot be much advancement unless whatever your talent is, that it is expressed for this is fulfilling to find your intentions here, what brings you pleasure to perform.
what this means to me personally is sometimes we can deny, or never find out what our talent is exactly because of whatever...not enough study, being lazy, or perceiving erroneously that there are obstackles in your way to do what u came here to do, maybe becoming addicted to whatever, we are good at having excuses why we didn't do the thing we love to do, whatever that is.
an example is: on my journey here I was a lowly housecleaner to my incorrect perception. but on a spiritual level I was in the right place. because I needed to understand about what good service was to another, no matter how much I knew I did not come to this planet to clean someone elses toilet...lol. by learning to love my job, by loving my clients, I was able to graduate from the profession..which by the way, it's an excellent spiritual position if approached to do good work in it. so maybe it doens't matter what position you hold in life, it only matters how well you do your job in order so that you can move to something more challenging and perhaps see your way clear to utilize what your special talent is.
my summation is one is never judged in the afterlife and slotted into a prison for what you did or didn't do, but you judge yourself according to whether you did the best you could, and you examine the reason why you did as you did. it is the reason why you might have killed someone but you are not punished for the act itself, you are punished only if you "enjoyed" killing someone and for that intention of deriving satisfaction from such an act. a soldier has never been punished for killing in the afterlife review. he had a license to kill. but yes, I agree, that together we help each other evolve and that there should be here or there, and even in the most degrading BST's imaginable, some kind of opportunity to assist and retrieve these, just as there exists here on this side, counselors and teachers who attempt same and some are very successful to help others, thereby helping themselves evolve. I didn't mean to ramble. sorry. I'm sure glad this board is here.
love, alysia
not finished yet. lol. there are opportunities to grow, assistance is always offered here or there. judgment is aided by nuetral unbiased guides who assist the life review, who offer suggestions but not coersion for the thing of choosing one expression over another is important; on the other side you are either choosing to honor life or expressing you choose death. those who refused to be retrieved to life may change their minds down the road. if they wish to remain within a bst area to experience whatever their diviation is, their addiction, there is always another guide or being who can know how to pull them away from that. on the other hand, they may choose to remain in their bst from our perception of linear time, a very long time and not be wishing to join their disc to cooperate and continue whatever discs do within evolvement, winking out as it were....they say a leopard will not change it's spots, but spiritually speaking I am of the opinion that the power of foregiveness is the same power of PUL to allow the leapard to change it's spots.