I know all the stuff about Monroe and Bruce and the Afterlife from reading the books, but now that my dad died a couple of hours ago I want to know how to help him go to the right place.... I don't have personal experience in visiting any Focus levels but any suggestions would be most welcome.

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my best suggestions to you right now would be to imagine a time when you and your loved one were sharing a special moment together so that you can "feel" that moment and hold it there in the heart. then imagine your dad also participating in that moment with you. this remembrance creates an awakening for him of his inner self. he is still alive. love acts to ground one into the afterlife scenario, to navigate and get their bearings so to speak. if you have any guilt, or grievances, now would be the perfect time to release them by talking through them and moving back to the love and remembering that you have not been abandoned here, (as it might seem) but the love will help him beyond all doubt, as he may be experiencing his own issues here and your love is what will free him. if you feel a peacefulness you'll know you have freed him, or "retrieved" him. you may even sense his presence. be patient, many of us take a year or more to do this process of releasing and getting back to the love but perhaps we can speed up the process. just state your intention and willingness to do this and assistance will arrive within the silence after you have said all that you can say to him and just concentrate on his gift to you within this life, whatever that may be. All of us have a gift we've delivered, sometimes it's hard to find it, sometimes it's easy.
also if you don't feel it's working to make contact, our loved ones will attempt to come within a dream state and often be successful in delivering a message. being open to this possibility can be good for both of you.
our thoughts are easily read by the departed and especially the love is received and helpful. please keep in touch and let us know how it goes. love, alysia

I am sorry about your father, Vanessa. I bet your dad knows what to do from here on out.  He would want you to relax and to not worry about him.  You are in my thoughts and prayers,  L

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Vanessa, is this the man you asked me to contact while in an Exeter hospital some months back?
Sorry, but I get a lot of requests and can't always remember.

I'm pretty sure he'll be okay; he absorbed the info I gave him back then, and another spirit came by for a visit...Phil or Philip wasn't it?

love,gordon

Hi dream_girl3 and Vanessa K,

I can see that both of you are new posters and are a sharing recent deaths of a parent. I was fortunate to have early contact by my mom through a reoccuring dream. She just quietly stood by me in support of what I needed, at that time, to work through.  My dad didn't show up till about 40 years later in a lucid dream. He explained alot of what the purpose of his death at 37 years old was for.  I was greatly relieved and stopped having reoccuring dreams about his death being one grand mistake.

I love seeing new people contribute their experices to the board. Thanks for your input and remember to look for the little things that might indicate that their still with you even if it takes a long time or you both might want to try Alysia's exercise if your motivated to.  She's a pro. 

Either way, remember the love you shared for it will never be lost.

I send lots of PUL(Pure Unconditional Love) to both of you at this time and take care.

Jean 

Dear Vanessa,

Spirit often works in mysterious ways, and from your last posting I would say you have definitely had your first contact with your dad. I`m sure as time goes by you will have many more, as I have since the loss of my wife, and they will occur in different ways.
Thursday will be a day to celebrate your dad`s life, not to mourn his passing. God be with you all.

Regards and best wishes,
roger