Vicky
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Hi David,
This is a typical dream visit that I've heard from others after they've lost a loved one. By typical, I mean in the sense that your dad looked younger, and he was at least somewhat aware of his new circumstances. I think there's quite often an aspect of a person's sense of self that has to slowly come to terms with their transition. They are so used to how things were, that it's not easy to so quickly adjust. It's especially this case with major health conditions.
My dad died from congestive heart failure and could barely walk toward the end. Even after he died he still needed time to process everything about his health and come to accept he was actually well now. I've heard the same from a close friend of mine about her step father who had Alzheimer's. After his death it took him some time to "get clarity" back. (This is all known from these kinds of dreams, which I believe are real visits. There's so much similarity in them. It must mean something! I don't think it's just coincidence, that's for sure).
Your dad had a lot of health problems to suffer with at the end of his life, so it makes sense to me that that part of him needs to "let it sink in" that he doesn't have that to deal with anymore.
I don't want anyone to assume that I'm saying that your dad is stuck, he's not. Not necessarily. But there could just be an Aspect of Self that needs retrieving. I think it's so very common for any one of us to have aspects of self that need retrieving. We usually retrieve them ourselves while we are still physically alive (without even realizing it) but for the parts of us that we couldn't self-retrieve while alive, they are still needing help after we die.
So it makes sense to me that these kinds of dreams happen. This Aspect part of your dad, the part that had to deal with his pain, is getting retrieved. And it might be done with, or it might be a slow process, but I don't think there is such a thing as a failed retrieval. Just the act of getting the person's attention is enough work done on your part to help the helpers get through to them too.
Now that that process has started it's definitely going to finish. The next time you have one of these special dreams of your dad (that I fully believe your dad's Helpers created), you will see an improvement in him, or he may be totally whole again. Either way, this Aspect of him is getting the help he needs.
Vicky
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