I'm sorry for your loss. You sound very upset. Is there a reason why you feel sure that your loved one needs a retrieval?

It must be a terrible shock to your entire family, so unexpected, so sorry. There are some retrievers here who may contact you to look in on your brother. It has been done before. When did this happen, has it been a few days, at least?

At the very least you can be consoled that he was in a peaceful state of being, asleep, when he departed. My initial reaction is that he may have immediately been met and taken to a good place for him. It could have been less of an accident than the actual time he was supposed to leave, as difficult as that might be for everyone to understand.

But, that doesn't change how terribly hard it must be for everyone to lack the chance to say goodbye. So, know that your positive feelings for him are felt and heard. If it has been very little time, he may still be near you at this time, and my feeling is that he may have been surprised but that there are definitely loving beings waiting for him where he is.

However, perhaps others here can take a look when the time is right.

  Hi Amexicandad72,

  I'm sorry to hear about you and your family's loss.  Just wanted to mention that getting stuck does not happen all the time with everyone. 

  If this was physically an accidental death, then it's likely your brother Daniel is not stuck.  Do you have any knowledge of whether this was accidental or not?

Does any one know how to do retrivals? Please help.

I am really quite surprised that no one has offered their help to you, but you did not answer my question earlier. I wanted to know how long it had been since your brother passed over. It did not seem appropriate to me to agree with your alarm over his whereabouts, as we do not automatically assume that all people need retrievals. In fact, it is said that it is actually rather rare that they do.

If you consider your dreams, and all the strange things that occur in your dreams, one would imagine that you might need to be retrieved from your dreams. But, they are actually not something to be alarmed about, in your daily life. It is not usual for dreams to seriously interfere with a person's daily life. If that seems like a strange thought, I am sorry. But, the afterlife seems to me to be a place kind of like our dreams, where amazing things can happen, even very very good things. So, try to have hope.

Have you read accounts of near death experiences? There are several very good sites online where you can read many many accounts, and it is very helpful to realize how actually positive almost every single one of these experiences is for these people, and the memories of the near death experiences are cherished and change people for the better. It is stressed over and over that they did not feel pain, and that they were exposed to positive, peaceful and loving feelings which were beyond any they had known before.

I have occasional feelings and intuitions about things, and I don't sense a problem with your brother's situation. I do understand that you and your family are struggling with this, and that is just the way things are. So, I am sorry about that.

Can I ask you to do one thing? When you are feeling peaceful, in a place where no one can interrupt you, can you listen to something calming for you, or be in nature, or be on the edge of sleep, and in that state of being just let your mind totally relax. When you get to a state of extreme calm, can you very gently ask for help (in your mind), for a guide to show you where your brother is right now. Do not actually "expect" something to happen. Just allow it. It is quite possible that you might have some fleeting visions, or you might have a quite vivid dream, which has meaning for you. If you remain open and receptive in this way, spirits can find a way to contact you.

However, if this does not work for you, I will set aside some time this weekend to do what I can. I simply cannot promise that it will be meaningful to you. Please take very good care of yourself right now, as this is a stressful time for you and all your loved ones. Remember that a meditation practice can help tremendously with stress. I recommend that, in whatever way works best for you.

I understand. I'm sure it has felt like a million years, one hour at a time.

I will try its just that I havent completely mastered the technic in soul retrievals and I dont remember hoe to do it any more