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Reply #15 - Nov 16th, 2012 at 1:23am
 
Hi JG,

I don't see the afterlife as a "way out."  Your consciousness there is what it is here.  Anyone who has "issues" to work on here, will bring those issues with them when they shed their body. 

From what I gather, the earth-life system allows us the greatest way to experience love and loss in a direct manner.  So that of course we may spiritually progress in the afterlife but the earth school lets it occur much more rapidly.

If someone takes with them doubt, fear, sorrow, and they happen to die, those feelings will be brought over.  Not everyone enters a glorious park with loved ones and daffodils. 

Our true nature is founded in God's love.  While incarnate on earth, we can allow this love to shine, or turn away from it.  To the extent that we learn to express love to others, we will evolve.  It is that simple.

If we see horrors or debauchery in the world, we don't have to passively accept them.  We can change our environment.  We can volunteer to make things better.  We don't have to feel buffeted about by forces beyond our control.  We can use our own intent to and good will to make things right.

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Reply #16 - Nov 18th, 2012 at 5:21pm
 
If someone takes with them doubt, fear, sorrow, and they happen to die, those feelings will be brought over.  Not everyone enters a glorious park with loved ones and daffodils. 

Swedenborg discovers tjat even souls destined for lower planes have an initial joyous encoutner with a beautiful park.  Then the principle of like attracts like kicks in and their core desires emerge from their superficial qualities that depend on the privacy of their thoughts and intents in earth life.  They are then slowly drawn to lower planes that reflect their level of progress towards PUL. 

btw, why have so many posters here assumed that all experiences of a park must reflect their location in Focus 27?   "Park" is a psychological archetype; so there must be countless "parks" on many levels of spiritual planes. 

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Reply #17 - Nov 19th, 2012 at 3:09pm
 
I can imagine wide and open spaces on the lower realms but I don't believe in butterflies and daffodils in beautiful parks in the lower realms. I suppose butterflies and daffodils belong to the realms of light.

Wide open spaces in the lower realms could probably be some kind of smelly or stinky businesses.

It's often dark in the places that I visit in my dreams but fortunately it doesn't stink. Or otherwise my sense of smell is disabled.
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Reply #18 - Nov 19th, 2012 at 4:21pm
 
I believe that what Doc said is basically true.  If we develop ourselves spiritually not only does it benefit us while in this World, it also benefits us when we rejoin the spirit World.

However, the fulfillment that is available in the spirit World far surpasses the fulfillment that is available while incarnated in this World. This World includes imperfections that don’t exist in the spirit World once you move to a higher level.

For example, consider my situation at work. I like the people I work with and they like me, but I don’t fit in. None of them are into spirituality. None of them are able to experience divine love and peace on a regular basis.  Since they haven’t sought divine love within themselves, they don’t seek it by being drawn to people who are able to experience it.

In a way this is similar to what happens in the spirit World. Just as spirits are drawn to other spirits and where they abide on a like attracts basis, people are drawn to people they resonate with.

In order for a coworker to get close to me, he (or she) would have to be willing to become aware of levels of reality they don’t want to be aware of. As a result, even though I am surrounded by people, I am basically alone while at work.

For the most part I don’t mind being alone while at home by myself (I live alone), but when surrounded by others, it’s kind of odd. If I were in the spirit World I know that I wouldn’t be alone. In fact, I feel closer to the friendly spirits I communicate with than I do with the people I know.

If it wasn’t for the fact that I am here to help out, I wouldn’t have a problem with returning to the spirit World sooner rather than later.



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Reply #19 - Nov 19th, 2012 at 4:38pm
 
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The problem with ES is that he paints a very gloomy picture of our fate in the afterlife.  I don't see God's grace playing much of a part, if any, in terms of where we end up.

A person could lead a good life, doing no harm to anyone, helping others now and then, but if he harbored a sexual lust (in his heart, as Jimmy Carter once confessed to) in his fantasies, he might be toast when he dies.

He might be shown the glories of heaven, and might desperately want to go there, but at the same time that old lust will draw him to a similar level in hell if that was his true love.  Remember, even if we don't act on our true love (good or bad), that doesn't matter in ES's scenario.

ES makes it clear that our true love is just as much a part of us as our DNA, and will be what determines our fate in the afterlife.

We are what we are.  Our true natures, no matter how we try to lead good lives, always rules the day when we die. Nowhere does ES say that good works trumps our true love. 

But then who knows, maybe the observer affects what is observed even more than we know.  Is what ES reported an objective reality, or was it something that conformed to ES' own expectations and beliefs?

I hope that was the case, otherwise it seems as if where we end up was determined the day we were born.

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Reply #20 - Nov 19th, 2012 at 5:46pm
 
I wonder how many people get completely over sexual desire while incarnated in a body. I've given it a shot without success.

However, I don't long for sexual gratification to the same extent as I long for divine love and peace. When I really want to feel fullfilled only divine love and peace will do the trick. Nevertheless, I still find women quite attractive.
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Reply #21 - Nov 19th, 2012 at 6:42pm
 
I don't get over it. All I ever want is to be one with a woman all the time.

Any woman.

If possible even women.

If sex is such a sin I am destined to go to a lower realm. I won't have to keep that a secret.

But I know that in the higher spheres of light people don't have sex anymore.
On the other side I also know that Masters don't bring art of the higher spheres to Earth since it would only arouse passion in the people.
Art in the higher spheres get's really close and intimate. It's about stretching your feelings to the limit.
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Reply #22 - Nov 20th, 2012 at 2:27am
 
Roger,

I think you are losing the forest for the trees here.  Swedenborg may talk about each of us having an inner love that we are inexorably drawn to, but while you see this as a fatalism (or unbreakable pre-destination for a heaven or hell), I am not sure that I do.

How about this; that we all have an inner love which we can direct, either parallel to  (or in accordance with) God's love, or away from God's love in a selfish manner.  So that we all, to some extent, could feed our own inner loves in accordance with God's love (namely love of others and love of God), or choose to  pursue our own selfish ends. 

Let us say one's nature was that of problem solving - getting satisfaction from plumbing the depths of a riddle and solving a puzzle.  One could use this to help others (let us say through helping people through solving a puzzle as a scientist, making a discovery to help others), or to help oneself - i.e. a person who loves solving puzzling issues to make money, to have material wealth, with no concern for how this inner love is used. 

I would therefore put it that all inner loves may be nurtured along the path toward God's love, or toward unloving ends.  It is our choice how we direct our inner  love.

If God's love is the foundation of our very being, then it would not make sense that some of us are born with a fundamental love for the opposite of this foundation.  It is more that we allow our inner nature to flow with the channel of love or we close ourselves off to pure love by willingly choosing a path of hate. 

I very much doubt that a fundamentally good person, who, as you state Roger was also obsessed with lust would have to willingly consign themselves to a hell centered around personal lust.   To some degree, sexual arousal is a state of the physical world.  In the post mortem realm, what are the person's tendencies and inclinations?  Is it just to think of their own personal satifiction, or are they open to love of God and love of others?  To the extent that they are open to love of God and of others, so can they develop in the afterlife, regardless of whether or not they also lusted in their heart or had other weaknesses.

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Reply #23 - Nov 20th, 2012 at 3:25am
 
You can create your reality with your thoughts, but you don't get children in your mind. The miracle of life starts in the belly of a woman. And it is initiated by a man.
That same mechanism continues to be used for our reproduction on the higher cosmic degrees in the universe. I learned that from The Origin of the Universe.

Creating life is something like connecting to the AllSource.
Connecting to the AllSource goes beyond the concept of God.
First there was the AllSource. The AllSource created God.

So is male energy higher then female energy because that initiates human life?
No.
Male energy and female energy are seperated parts of the AllSource. They must be united to align with the AllSource.
The AllSource is undivided energy. At first there was only the AllSource. It didn't know about male and female energy. That came in a later stage.


Here is what Jozef Rulof received by clear audiance from the other side for his Cosmology:
'The Cosmology for this Mankind
The Allsource...
God as Mother
God as Father
God as Soul
God as Life
God as Spirit
God as a Personality
God as Harmonic Laws
God as Material Laws
God as Spiritual Laws
God as the Expanding Universe
God as Justice
God as Love
The Spark of God...'


I do not fear death. I kind of look forward to it. But while I am here I can help other people in a way I could not do on the other side of life. When I am here I can rap about Rulof's work. When I am on the other side I can rap whatever I like but nobody will hear me.
It is not so easy to incarnate in a physical body as it is to buy a ticket for an airplane. It takes a lot more then that. So while I am here I think it's best to use the opportunity.
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Reply #24 - Nov 20th, 2012 at 5:07pm
 
Doc-

Well, first of all I personally don't subscribe to what I called ES' gloomy view of the afterlife.  That's why I ended the post by indicating that ES' view of things might have colored what he saw and reported.  Interpreter overlay if you will.

Second, all I can do is cite some references.  Van Dusen's book (The Presence of Other Worlds) on ES says "To underline the central role of the ruling love, Swedenborg referred to it at various times as a person's life itself, his own Self, his character, the essence of his life, his soul, and the very form of his spirit."  Pg 111

ES, in Heavenly Doctrine 57, says "Everything about us comes from the primary tendency of our life.  This is what distinguishes us from other people.  If we are good we make our heaven according to it, and if we are bad we make our hell according to it.  It is our basic motivation, our personality, and our character, since it is the reality of our life.  It cannot be changed after death because it is our essential self."  Italics mine.

If we choose to do good things, that doesn't seem to be something that will alter our essential self IF it is not consistent with that self.  And therefore, per ES, what happens to us when we die is pretty much set in stone.

Again, I don't personally agree with ES.  And maybe he's not really saying what he seems to be saying.  In any case it remains, as I said before, a rather gloomy picture.

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Reply #25 - Nov 21st, 2012 at 3:42am
 
Roger,

ES may have said that our essential love does not change with death, but as conscious beings while we have an essential love, I still maintain that this is more of a unique perceptive quality rather than an inbred state of being "good" or "bad" in our essence. 

Swedenborg's theory is that the foundation of our being is love, specifically God's love - and to the extent that we channel the flow of love  (love of God and our fellow human beings), we choose to be in a heavenly state.  To the extent that we block the flow from God, we are in a hellish one.

Do we have an "essential tendency" or character trait that makes each of us who we are?  Absolutely!  Is that character trait, by its nature forever tied to a hellish state or heaven - in my opinion, absolutely not!

Even by naming it "the ruling love," ES is giving us clues that it must, by its nature be positive (as love is) or at worst neutral, and able to be manifest in many different ways, depending on our choices.  Roger, I fear not this interpretation, as it is a very general sense - the ruling love - and not the specifics.

My mother just died Monday morning.  I am still shaken from it.  I plan to post a separate thread on my experience so far.  However, in composing her eulogy, it was clear that she had a ruling love.  She lived for her children, and to sacrifice for their development.  She had a strong will, and was selflessly directed toward her goal of nourishing/guiding/giving to others.  Her sense of service to others was her ruling love.  She did not take vacations when she could, nor indulge in self gratifying behaviour of any kind.

Now eventhough, I believe this was her ruling love (love of service to her family), it may have merely been a manifestation of a deeper more primal love; namely love and sacrifice to one's fellow man.

But her tendency toward self sacrifice at great personal expense,  while it was her core motivation, was one founded in a fundamental love (love of others).  She could choose to to apply it.  For example, she could have tried to promote her own children at the expense of cutting down others (she did NOT do this).  As such, decisions about how to satisfy the core love, could have led her to either happiness  (if in line with God's love) or misery (if her decisions led to actions away from God's love (selfish purposes, etc.)

So I guess what I'm saying Roger, is that our core tendency is, by nature able to channel real PUL - or go in the opposite direction, depending on our choices.  Yes, that means the ruling love is there (what makes us who we are).  But it is not a condemnation fromt he beginning to a hellish future for anyone.

The sadist who creates hell on earth is not, by this way of thinking exercising sadism as his ruling love.  the ruling love is NOT that specific.  It is more that he/she has corrupted his unique love, and taken action in the opposite direction of God's love. 

This is a difficult concept, but an important distinction.  A ruling love is a general description of your uniqueness which will be manifest in drawing you toward many different corresponding loves in life.  By its very definition, it can not be "bad" or consign you to a hell by its nature.  The nature of the ruling love can never be bad.  It is the decisions we make that take it that way. 

You can see it if you look carefully at your sentence:
"If we are good (ACTIONS/CHOICES) we make our heaven according to it (A GENERAL TENDENCY TOWARD WHAT WE ARE ATTRACTED TO), and if we are bad (OUR ACTIONS/CHOICE) we make our hell according to it."

So no one should fear this concept of "ruling love," because it is a much more basic - it is a description of a general uniqueness about each person.


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Reply #26 - Nov 21st, 2012 at 1:41pm
 
And then there's this:

http://www.csicop.org/si/show/swedenborg_and_dr._oz

It certainly sheds a different light on ES and his discoveries.

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Reply #27 - Nov 21st, 2012 at 2:11pm
 
Doc:

Sorry to hear about your loss. I figure that you know that your mom is okay. The way you describe her, she sounds like an inspiration.
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Reply #28 - Nov 21st, 2012 at 3:00pm
 
Matthew, very well stated and I agree with your interpretation of what ES communicates.

Roger, I'm sure you'd agree that all models in which we try to describe our greater reality are limited and therefore can only be flawed at least to a certain degree because we can only communicate them based on our human perspectives influenced by our cultures.  Though I must say it is fascinating to try to discover meaning and truth from the various ones that are put out there.  I think we need to remember that Van Dusen's book is his own interpretation of what ES communicates.  My interpretation of what ES means by "ruling love" is like what Matthew is saying though I break it down a bit more.

Consciousness is the basic, fundamental reality upon which all else arises.  Nothing truly exists except consciousness.  Consciousness is primary, but since our ideas about what consciousness means are so limited by our cultures, I think it is easier to model it as our core essence and to say it is essence that gives rise to consciousness, that gives rise to mind, that gives rise to matter.  Our core essence is the most essential nature of our being and is completely unique to each of us. It is our "ruling love" as ES puts it.

Our core essence has been there within each of us since before the beginning of time and is far beyond the limitations of time, space and belief.  It is the individualized aspect of the divine, of God within and from this place within each of us is where we live and move and have our being.  We can easily recognize it as that which we have always known ourselves to be since birth.  In this place we are full of wisdom, love and courage. 

Our inner essence has not really changed with time since our physical birth, nor will it have changed at the time we die.  No negative experiences have ever really tainted it.  Sure, our reactions to negative experiences may have covered it, or shrouded it, but they have never really changed it because it is our most basic nature, the deeper goodness that is within each of us.  It is from this place within, the eternal fountainhead from which all our creative energies arise.

Everything we have ever done in our life began with both good intent and with pleasure.  To break it down more specifically, all creative acts/actions follow the same course in the journey into the physical.  It first manifests as consciousness within our core essence, then as intent, then as life energies that well up into the physical.  When these energies flow directly from the core through positive/loving intent, through the personality, through the physical body, we create joy, health and wellbeing in our lives as well as in the lives of others.

When we block the creative energies arising from the core with negative/fearful intent, we eventually create pain and suffering in our lives as well as the lives of others.  Yet, we need to have both positive and negative experience as a way to evolve consciousness.  We need duality in order to learn, understand and grow.  We are never separated from our core essence, it is who we really are, it is our essential self, it is our ruling love.  Experiencing a single lifetime in this or any other physical reality cannot change our inner nature or our inner being very much.  Evolutionary change does occur, but if we consider the immenseness of the essence of which we are a part of, evolution is a very slow process and a single lifetime is likely to have only the tiniest measurable impact if any at all.

Kathy

PS  Roger, interesting skeptical article.  Sounds to me like the author is writing to the skeptical world without doing his homework... just picking and choosing what he personally finds outrageous including Dr. Oz.  lol Roll Eyes 

I've never read the ES book he mentions so couldn't speak to anything this person says about it.
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Reply #29 - Nov 21st, 2012 at 3:20pm
 
Those of you who are on a more serious train of thought, just ignore me, but earlier in this thread I mentioned that my mother said that the thing that keeps her "hanging on" sometimes is that someone might make her laugh.

Well, I am visiting my mother (one of them -- I have two, so blessed am I). She has moved into a different house, kind of out in the countryside, and the main commode was having some problems. She would liked to have ignored it, but her husband insisted that something must be done. So, we had a plumber come out and fix it yesterday, indeed, install a brand new toilet.

So, I was looking online yesterday and noticed a headline, something about "World Toilet Day". I didn't know there was such a thing. But, I investigated it further and found out that it actually WAS World Toilet Day yesterday, the very day we were replacing the toilet. Just by chance. It is supposed to bring to people's attention all the people in the world who don't have such a basic, and very handy, object nearby, and there are many many people who don't.

It gave me laugh, just the coincidence. I don't know if there are toilets in the afterlife, or even such a need. But it was a funny moment in my life yesterday, one that made me take notice, one I don't think I would have wanted to miss... Smiley

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