SEX IN THE AFTERLIFE

Dual intercourse would mean something more specific than universal charity. It would be special communion with the sexually complementary; something a man can have only with a woman and a woman only with a man. We are made complete by such union. The souls in heaven must still take on the aspects of male and female to make spiritual merging and the ecstasy of merging with another compatible soul joyful and glorious

There is no marriage in heaven just like Jesus told us, it just makes no sense.

The relationship need not be confined to one in Heaven, monogamy is for earthly union.

I think there must be some special ``kindred souls'' in Heaven that we are designed to feel a special sexual/ heavenly love for. That would be the Heavenly solution to the earthly riddle of why in the world John falls for Mary, of all people, and not for Jane, and why romantic lovers feel their love is fated, "in the stars'', “made in Heaven''.

As there are no wicked minds in heaven.

I believe God does put few restrictions on his perfected heavenly creatures. There are countless soul mates for each person or soul, spirit to experience blissful union and pleasure and it would be boring and meaningless to be confined to one or a few partners given that we have exist in an eternal moment of the ever changing now. “Not this is just something that seems logical to me, not something I know for sure:

It would not feel apart from or opposed to the God-relationship, but a part of it or a consequence of it: His design, the wave of His baton. It would also be totally unself-conscious and unselfish: the ethical goodness of agape external, and without selfishness or animal drives.
We know Heaven by earthly clues.

Let us try to read all the clues in earthly intercourse. It has three levels of meaning: the subhuman, or animal; the superhuman, or divine; and the specifically human. (All three levels exist in us humans.)

Specifically human reasons for intercourse include the desire to express personal love. As to the first, there is no marriage in Heaven.

As there can be no wrong in heaven spiritual, union between any souls like soul must happen.

I think there will probably be millions of more adequate ways to express love than the clumsy ecstasy of fitting two bodies together like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle.

This spiritual intercourse with God and other souls in the afterlife, is the ecstasy hinted at earthly sexual intercourse, physical or spiritual. It is the ultimate reason why sexual passion is so strong, so different from other passions, so heavy with suggestions of profound meanings that just elude our grasp. No mere practical needs account for it.

No mere animal drive explains it. No animal falls in love, writes profound romantic poetry, or sees sex as a symbol of the ultimate meaning of life, sexuality is a foretaste of that self-giving, that losing and finding the self in another being.. That is what we long for; that is why we tremble to stand outside ourselves in the other, to give our whole selves, body and soul: because we are images of God who like us is a sexual being.

We love the other sex because God loves us.

In addition, this earthly love is so passionate because Heaven is full of passion, of energy and dynamism... Earthly sex is the shadow, and our lives are a process so that we can share in the of the Heavenly fire so that we can endure and rejoice in the of eternal spiritual sexual union with any soul mate we desire in the afterlife..

I am sure in heaven we who have not found our real soul mate while on earth, will find this special being in the afterlife.

What do you think?

Alan

As long as we define ourselves as being separate from God, then we will have desires and needs, and operate from the ego in one way or another.  As such, until we mature, we will likely have the desire to have the attention, pleasure and contact of intimacy that is between us and another during this time of voluntary separation from God.

A higher understanding of love strips away the ego, (but NOT the uniqueness of the individual).  Thus, we learn, gradually, that the highest love comes from love of God and service to others.  When we learn this, and really feel this, we are less inclined to act out of pure ego-based desire.  Hence, the decreased need for sex or one-on-one intimacy.  I admit, I haven't reached this plane myself.  But, it is part of my understanding, that the forces that draw us toward sex (aside from physical pheromones, and biology), will naturally change, as our understanding of love matures over time. 

I have heard it said from numerous sources that there is a form of sexual intimacy in the focus 27 and immediate "heavens" right after life.   How long you stay there or move on, is likely up to you. 

We seem to have the ability to choose.


Matthew

Well put Doc.

DocM wrote on Jun 16^th, 2012 at 12:51pm:

I like your talk juditha, but I disagree on your chicken curry and rice.
I want to start a new topic some day about vegetarism.

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This is not true union in the afterlife can be very similar to sexual union between LOVERS in the earthly realm. But much more sustained, pleasurable and can also consist of many like souls in one glorious union.

hi mogunblue i have recently thought about not eating meat anymore as im starting to get this sense of guilt even if i look at it,i see the animal whenever i look at meat now,i have not eaten meat for a while now.

i felt a bit unhappy when i wrote that chicken curry and rice which i dont have anymore,i always have mushroom curry and rice now

i dont know why but so many of the ways i look at life now have changed since i was younger,being single has made me notice more about the world,i actually notice the flowers and the birds in the sky,all things i never really looked at before,i find the world starting to look beautiful,but the downside of that is like many things that put darkness into the world is animal cruelty,i sponser to little dogs that live in dog shelter ,which is a lovely place for them as they were rescued from cruelty and i also have two little dogs of my own.

i know that its gradually its crept up on me that im starting to become vegerterian.

love and god bless  love juditha

hi alan and all. I know in my heart that my existence in the spiritworld is going to be a lot better than the one ive had on this earth plain,it gives me joy to read your NDE as there is so much in there that lets me know that there is nothing but love for us ,animals,plants and all living things,thanks for sharing this alan,i just wish it was like this on earth,but i dont think it ever will be.

its so hard sometimes to keep loving all in this world when you read about all the cruelty violence and pain inflicted by humans toward each other and animals,ive always beleived that animals have a soul.

ive always said, animal love is unconditional,human love comes with conditions.

love and god bless  love juditha