I've found that my dreams pretty much represent my conscience and values as they are. If we experience something that seems to vary, perhaps there is an aspect of mind that we aren't acknowledging. Through a dream our higher self lets us know about this aspect so we will deal with it.
When it comes to free will, I believe we always have it, it is just that people sometimes get so bogged down in their psychological conditioning that they don't use their free will in a wise and loving way. The more they realize that they are limited by their psychological conditioning and seek to gain freedom from it, the more they will do so.
The part of themselves that is always free is what allows them to notice their psychological conditioning and become unhappy about it.
On numerous occasions I made the point of inwardly noticing that despite my psychological conditioning, the decision making part of myself is always free. It is a matter of how I choose.
For example, the other day a road crew set up construction right by where a freeway entrance is. This made it so drivers had to come to a complete stop right by where they entered the freeway. A very dangerous situation. As I drove by the road crew I honked my horn with hope of pointing out the situation they created. One of the road crew members flipped me off.
I could've followed the pattern of my mind that wanted to be angry with him, but instead I chose to have love and understanding for him. Therefore, instead of using my mind in a negative way, I used it in a positive way.
It could be argued that I made a positive choice because I had the spiritual background to make such a choice. A person who hadn't spiritually developed himself might not have easy access to the same positive choice. This is true.
However, this doesn't mean that he doesn't have free will. It just means that he hasn't gained the wisdom to use his free will in a wise way.
As a way of comparision, a person with a strong aptitude for math (free will) doesn't become a person with a weak aptitude for math simply because he doesn't have all of the variables he needs in order to complete the equation he is working on.
A part of allowing the beings you create to have free will is allowing them the time to learn to use it in a wise and loving way.
PauliEffectt wrote on Jun 2nd, 2012 at 11:05am:recoverer wrote on Jun 1st, 2012 at 10:13pm:Perhaps at some level Robert agreed to do what his I-there wanted him to do. I've never felt as if I don't have a choice.
You will, if you pay more attention.
In your dreams, you will do things you usually wouldn't do, and those actions
are directed by someone else.
Also in retrievals you will. One example of my own is when I rudely push
down a wall in the
White Collar Businessman retrieval.
I had no intention in doing such a thing, yet I was made to push down the wall.
A child born in a Muslim family will often become Muslim. A child born in
a Christian family will often become Christian. Not much free will there.
In my opinion, free will is an illusion Christians cling on to. It's part of
the Christian god concept.