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Reply #15 - Jan 14th, 2012 at 2:23am
 
That is an interesting interview with Anita Moorjani, Neno. I am pleased after watching it. I think the part where she says that she realised that the results of the medical tests she had already had would reflect which ever decision she took is interesting. I expect that will catch the attention of one or two quantum physicists.
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Reply #17 - Jan 17th, 2012 at 4:32am
 
I've been trying to find something that debunks AM but I haven't found anything. To debunk her would mean to demonstate that she wasn't dying and that the NDE was not associated with teh cancer reversal. Has anyone else seen anything?

The interview (previous post)has so many points from which one could start a conversation. HEre's one quote I like:
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Also, let me explain that there is a difference between “being loving” and “being love”.

Being loving means giving love to another whether you have any for yourself or not. It means giving what you yourself may or may not even have to give. This type of giving of love can eventually drain you, because we donąt always have a limitless supply. And then we look to the other to replenish our pool of love, and if it is not forthcoming, we stop being loving ourselves, because we are exhausted.

Being love, on the other hand, means loving myself unconditionally so that it overflows, and anyone and everyone around me just becomes an automatic recipient of my love. The more I love myself, the more it flows out to others. It almost feels like being a vessel for love to flow through. When I am being love, I donąt need people to behave a certain way in order for them to be a recipient of my love. They are automatically getting my love as a result of me loving myself. So to stop being love, to me, means to stop loving myself. Hence, I will not stop being love on account of another.


I have drained myself being loving without accomplishing much, just as she describes, and not practiced self-love enough.

This is one of he reasons it is important to me to call it PUL rather than just "love."

Self-love has been and still is one of my hardest lessons. I took all those Bible lessons about loving your neightbor seriously but always felt I had to reprimand myself. Changing that has been a slow process. I dd realize that if you love your neighbor as yourself and don't love yourself much, then maybe you wouldn't have to love your neighbor either!

In my early 20's I came across a book called The Heresy of Self-Love. Even the title contains a sharp lesson. It certainly alowed me to focus on the fact that nowhere in religious teaching had I come across anything about loving myself. I couldn't do it (love myself) but I became able to at least talk about it, to move from thinking self-love was narcissistic to seeing it is everything.

Another lesson came from of all places a pratitioner of Wicca, Starhawk, who wrote clearly about the self-hater in many people. She has a great quote in one of her books from ..Doris Lessing I think...that talks about that. Reading that was another profound realization of what I was doing to myself.

I realy think one of the functions of culture that keeps us from our higher self is to teach us to not love ourselves. I think organized religion also teaches that. It is one of the things that keeps us bound to culture (rather than enlightened). Anita makes it sound so simple. But I'm glad she is talking about it. This is a good distinction to make, between being loving and being love.
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Reply #18 - Jan 17th, 2012 at 4:59am
 
Hi Lucy,

This is interesting, but also a slippery slope.  Most of my experience leads me to believe that there is much misery that comes from ego-based thought and action.  Many living people get into all situations such as divorce, affairs, deceptive behavior, etc. for selfish purposes.  Now that is something different from true self love, but for some it is a fine distinction.

What you are saying does gel with my understanding of PUL.  It is my understanding that PUL is the very foundation of our being, whether we know it or not.  To the extent that we let love enter our thought and actions, we are loving.  To the extent that we block this foundation, we are estranged from love and unbalanced.

The most enlightened minds I've known think and act in a loving manner, without thought of self-advancement or recognition.  It simply is part of their nature.  If self-love includes this type of thought and action, then I think we are on the same page.  However, there comes a point where a truly loving person stops making the distinction between self and nonself; there is only one way to be.

If any of us harbor feelings of inadequacy and are self-judgemental, it does follow that we may block this natural flow of love.  But others can justify the notion of self love as acting for the gain of self at the expense of their fellow man/woman.


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Reply #19 - Jan 17th, 2012 at 12:43pm
 
<<It is my understanding that PUL is the very foundation of our being, whether we know it or not.>>

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Exactly.  PUL is misunderstood by many folks.  They mistake it for an emotion, and think it's something they "have" as opposed to something they are.  It's not a commodity that they can send back and forth to each other.

PUL, as you say, is a state of being.  It's probably the very essence of Existence or God.  Or "All That Is." 

Someone once said PUL is what a new mother has for her newborn child.  No, not really.  She is feeling an emotion that to her is pure and unconditional.  Over time, however, because in her case it's an emotion, it will change. 

Genuine PUL, however, never changes.  It simply IS.

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Reply #20 - Jan 17th, 2012 at 3:11pm
 
So, if you were trying to explain the difference between being selfish and being love to someone, in a practical way, how would you do it? For instance to a friend who was about to embark on an affair  she/he felt was good because it felt right "rhis is for me and I deserve this" (..not that anyone in that situation would be asking for advice! This is hypothetical of course) and full of love, how would you explain the difference? or pick an alternate but practical scenario. Can the difference be defined or must it be experienced?

I think telling people to love themselves is a good thing.  Being taught to turn the other cheeck is not part of your tradition, Matthew, and I don't know if you realize how destructive NOT teaching people to love themselves can be. Or maybe guys aren't tormented with this in the same way, becauase of the culture. Maybe women are more inclined to make doormats of themselves than guys are (not because of any innate difference but because of cultural conditioning).

So narcissism isn't the same as being love, but how does one describe the difference? Though it is interesting to note that one could focus on one's self without loving one's self.
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Reply #21 - Jan 18th, 2012 at 12:29am
 


Love and the Heart Centre

Those who know the workings of the subtle bodies and can see and know the soul's centre's of consciousness can see that these centres of consciousness each possess their own energetic structure and dynamics.

And all the body's organs function exactly as reflections of the functions of the respective centres of consciousness of which each organ is associated.

And the design and function of every part of the human body reflects exactly the design and function of the same associated part within the soul and subtle bodies.

Some might wish to learn about the soul and its workings from the anatomy and function of the body. 

The workings of Blood and the Heart and their relation to the cells of the body are exact reflections of the workings of Love and the Heart Centre and their relation to the body of humanity.



Blood and the Heart:

Blood is life and health to every cell throughout the body. Blood carries everything that every cell requires. Blood gives, and blood takes away.

Blood must be in motion for the life it carries to pass to the cells of the body.

When blood is stationary or confined, it dies and turns toxic. 

Blood flows through the heart in only one direction, like an arrow.

The heart supplies blood to all cells in the body, except to itself. The heart does not, cannot, supply blood to itself.

There is a one-way valve at the exit of the heart, where the blood flows forth, called the aortic valve, and this valve ensures blood does not flow back into the heart.

When the heart contracts to pump forth blood to all the cells of the body, the aortic valve (which has three cusps) opens wide to accommodate the flow of blood, and in so doing the valve seals shut the arteries in the aorta which supply blood to the heart. The heart pumps forth life-blood to all other cells but does not take a single drop for itself.

After the heart has given forth its blood to all the body's cells, there is a back-pressure which closes the valve back to the heart and in so doing opens the entrances to the arteries that supply blood to the heart.

Only after the heart has supplied the body with its needed lifeblood does the heart receive blood for itself, and even then it does not pump that blood to itself as it does to all the other cells in the body, but rather, the blood comes around to nourish the heart by a natural design that is independent of the heart. A backpressure generated by the structure of the body's arterial system and by all the collective cells within the body causes blood to enter the coronary arteries and circulate around the heart and nourish the heart in preparation for its next exertion of giving lifeblood to the cells of the body. And then again, not by its own effort, but by natural systemic design, it will receive blood back for itself, but always only after it has given that same blood forth to other cells. 

The heart does not put itself last; it does not even consider itself at all; it just gives forth its lifeblood and leaves the greater system to provide its needs.  



 
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Reply #22 - Jan 18th, 2012 at 3:15am
 
So, the heart can never be narcissistic, but it is always nourished.
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Reply #23 - Jan 18th, 2012 at 12:30pm
 
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So narcissism isn't the same as being love, but how does one describe the difference?


Hi Lucy,

I'm not sure if this will answer your question or not, but hopefully it will shed some light on the subject.

I would agree that PUL is the very foundation of our being, the substance, the essence of what we are only in the sense that God alone is this underlying foundation or the ground of our very being that we call PUL.  This is what I have believed and have spoken of for many years.  Yet it seems as though, to our limited mind anyway, PUL is more as a guiding light.  Something that we are striving to evolve within our very being.  If PUL is a state of being, and I have thought it is, then there obviously are other states of being that exist as well.  In addition it seems as though there is an element of chaos that resides within our consciousness.  Or at least we can hypothesize this because of the way we express ourselves in our interactions with each other and the varying intents behind the expression.

Love is something that can only be given. I think it is correct to say that it is to the exact degree we are able to love and understand one's self, it is to that exact same degree we are able to love and understand others.  So the more we give love and understanding to our self, the more we are able to give love and understanding to others when interacting with them.  The deciding factor as to whether or not it is love being given resides in our intent.  The underlying motivation of our thought and action.  Is the intent love based or is it fear/ego based?  Discerning our intent, our motivation, is not always easy and the resulting outcome of an action does not always reflect one's intent accurately.  So how do we know we are growing spiritually?  How do we know we are evolving, rather than devolving?

If our capacity to love, to give, to exhibit humility and compassion in our daily interactions is significantly increasing, while our ego, fear and material attachments are significantly decreasing, we then can know that we are evolving, improving the quality of our internal being, our consciousness.

It seems to me that spiritual growth/evolving our consciousness (same thing) is directly related to and results from our innate ability (the guiding light within) to interact from loving intent.  It is not about how much we do, wear ourselves out in the service of others, it is about the reason, the incentive, the impetus that drives our thought and actions as we experience and interact with all that we perceive as external from us.   Real spiritual progress, real improvement in the quality of our consciousness must come from the inside, that which is internal.  This involves self love and understanding.  A part of self love involves the understanding of our true intent, our true motivations, as well as the assimilation, the integration of what we create in our lives through our interactions.   In other words, it is through our interactions with others that changes occur within our being, modifies what we are internally. 

We can unquestionably know that we are growing spiritually if we are truly knowledgeable in regards to our true intent, if we are kind, humble, compassionate, helpful, balanced and focused on what we can contribute to the well-being of others in our day to day interactions.  Others will also see our capacity to love, to give, to display compassion and humility.  A highly evolved individual sticks out from the crowd like a shining jewel.  These individuals are beloved and held in the highest esteem by everyone who meets them.  They have gentle and highly effective personal power that is fearless, egoless.  These individuals live gracefully in the face of the unknown because this is a simple and very natural process that occurs when there is an absence of fear within one's being.

If on the other hand our spiritual state is stagnate or of low quality, ego driven and our interactions with people are manipulative, and we are trying to impress them for material or ego ends, then we are failing in our efforts to grow spiritually and improve the quality of our being, even if we have convinced people otherwise, and thereby will have deluded one's self. 

Eventually we will have no difficulty telling the difference between real spiritual growth or delusions of spiritual growth about our self if (and that's a big if) one actually wants to know the truth.

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Reply #24 - Jan 18th, 2012 at 1:57pm
 
You can certainly treat a person covered in blood and carrying an axe knocking on the door saying "Top of the morning to you, I'm here to give a slice-job" the same way that you treat the delivery guy. I'd say nope to the first, and yes to the second, as they both brought something to consider. Kind, humble, gentle, compassionate and helpful isn't the key to every situation (it might be later on in the progressing situation, or not) and certainly not balanced. Knowing one's evolving isn't reflected in how well and easily one bends over, while loving it.

What kind of service is it to anyone if you wear yourself out a.k.a give too much? Who's receiving too much? The complimentary muddy tones in the aura of too much isn't much of a beacon of light. Tending your own garden, and the flowers growing there, or that are supposed to grow there, doesn't make one service to self - it doesn't mean that's the only garden tended. Either THIS or either THAT, service to self or service to others, is polaric and pays homage and good fortune to the extremes of both sides.

Love can only be given - what the heck would be the point since no-one would be able to receive the given love?
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Reply #25 - Jan 18th, 2012 at 3:21pm
 
Hi Volu,

It seems my words have been confusing, rather than helpful to you.  That was not my intent and I'm truly sorry.

I'm not quite sure I understand what you're saying.  Perhaps if you could ask more specific questions I could grasp your meaning better and try to improve on further explanation.

Certainly one can be the benefactor, on the receiving end, of someone's loving intent, however love in and of itself is something that can only be given.  Think of love as essence or substance that is radiated from a being.  Love in and of itself is a radiant substance. In this way it is PUL (the guiding light within).  To the degree an individual is able to radiate love, the purity, the clarity of it, is dependent upon a number of factors such as if one has cross-purposes within their intent.

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Reply #26 - Jan 19th, 2012 at 10:34am
 
  Hi Kathy, I really enjoyed and agreed with a lot of your well thought out and written post.  Much of it resonated very deeply and strongly.

  Just want to point out one thing, which i think may be important for the larger public and especially for any "He/She" type aspirants:

Kathy wrote, Quote:
"A highly evolved individual sticks out from the crowd like a shining jewel.  These individuals are beloved and held in the highest esteem by everyone who meets them.


   I wish the above was true--it would be really nice if it were, but history time and time again shows quite the opposite.  Many of the most "highly evolved" individuals that came here were killed, put in jail, or at the very least shunned and mistreated by the majority around them while they were still inphysical and interacting inphysically with many people. 

  The list is quite long, those like Jesus, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr, and to lesser extents those like Gandhi and even John Lennon (though probably not in the same category as some of these men) are just a few well known ones for some example.

  I mention this because it strongly lays out/examples an important energetic and consciousness law which some have called "Like attracts and begets Like"  very, very well. 

  If Like attracts and begets Like, then unLike repels and often dislikes unLike, and especially the slower vibration patterns towards the faster vibration patterns. 

Highly evolved people, especially the most, are very, very, very fast vibratory in nature.   Many in this particular world are not.  The more an individual has cut off connections to their own Sourceness and internal PUL awareness, the more they will tend to react in powerfully negative ways and in increasing proportion to the opposite in another. 

  This is why quite a number of people saw so much red in relation to Jesus and quite irrationally so.  He simply enraged them.  He was so unbelievably evolved, and he was interacting with some rather shut down folks, and all they could think of is, "we need to get rid of this guy, and the sooner, the better." 

  Many other less so, but still unusually mature folks are often just not well accepted or tolerated by many of those around them--especially if they are trying to institute any kind of transformative change and in any case they tend to act as at least unconscious automatic initiators or influencer's of change around them. 

Or more personally speaking, i went through a brief period wherein my "lower self" so called was more in control than my higher self, and i reacted negatively to your, at the time, more fast vibratory patterns than my own. 

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Reply #27 - Jan 19th, 2012 at 10:41am
 
  Quick p.s. relating to my last reply.  It is usually the moderately evolved/intune folks who tend to garner the most positive reactions and feelings from the majority around them.  This is because there isn't quite the difference in "vibes" with the other or either extremes, and there are more of those who are near that themselves, and Like attracts, begets, and often likes Like on the deeper mental level of existence within the physical and much of the nonphysical.
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Reply #28 - Jan 19th, 2012 at 1:16pm
 
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Kathy wrote, Quote:

"A highly evolved individual sticks out from the crowd like a shining jewel.  These individuals are beloved and held in the highest esteem by everyone who meets them."

Justin wrote, Quote:
   "I wish the above was true--it would be really nice if it were, but history time and time again shows quite the opposite.  Many of the most "highly evolved" individuals that came here were killed, put in jail, or at the very least shunned and mistreated by the majority around them while they were still inphysical and interacting inphysically with many people." 

Hi Justin,

Yes, you are correct.  I should probably amend my statement to say most everyone.  If someone has never experienced significant progress in their spiritual development they may have no clue.  It is extremely difficult for anyone to understand in a deep, profound and personal way without having had similar experiences of his or her own. 

I do think most, if not all people can easily recognize a highly evolved individual though.  How they respond or interact with that person is more of a reflection of their own quality of consciousness.  If they respond negatively, it is because they are harboring fear.  Using your example of Jesus, perhaps the negative treatment was a result of their ability to see his amazing personal power and they were afraid of the effect it would have on their own positions in life.  Hence they sought to destroy him.

Much love to you, too.
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Reply #29 - Jan 19th, 2012 at 2:22pm
 
Kathy,
"I do think most, if not all people can easily recognize a highly evolved individual though.  How they respond or interact with that person is more of a reflection of their own quality of consciousness.  If they respond negatively, it is because they are harboring fear."

The same can be said about any guru or anyone we like/love/adore, and as a follower: protect his or her position as an authority and at the same time one's own ties to the individual. Someone respond with reason to her or his words, as followers, dub it 'negatively', and then say they're merely harboring fear.
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