Focus27 wrote on Jan 5th, 2012 at 11:57pm:I wondered what everyone's thoughts are on mediums charging for the readings?
Hi,
Personally, I wished everything worked that way. Doctors couldn't get paid unless the patient gets better. Teachers don't get paid unless students become productive members of society. Politicians don't get paid unless the economy, healthcare, school systems and laws are proven to be helpful to the majority. And, on and on.
Alas, the question becomes "Who pays for these service providers to exist while they are "making things right" in the world? Further, who decides the standard of living for these people during this "fix it" period?
The point I'm trying to make is that it seems unfair to use a different standard for a service provider based on the "accuracy" or "testability" of the information they provide. I injured my knee in the Fall of 2010 while moving across the country. I finally went for surgery about a year ago (4 months after the injury). I had to pay about $10K out-of-pocket because of how the insurance deductible rolled over at the beginning of the year. Guess what? I have been using a walker for most of this past year. Trust me. If I could get back that cash for a "poor job done" I would be the first in line to push my walker to get there.

The reality is things don't work that way.
Interestingly, though, modern medicine as we know it, is a relatively *new* concept. About a hundred years ago, soldiers were becoming infected by secondary contact with tools used on other wounded soldiers, many mothers were dying in childbirth and the average life expectancy for an infant was not that high. Thus, it seems odd (to me, at least) that most people wouldn't bat an eye to see a doctor although their overall success rate isn't that high, but balk about seeing a "reader" although it's been around much, much longer and generally has a higher success rate. Please don't misunderstand me. I know there are some good doctors out there and I know there are some shady readers out there. The bottom line is we make judgments of certain occupations based on our society's overall view of said profession. We hear about the failures of Sylvia Browne and Miss Cleo being a fraud and John Edward reading body language, but we almost never hear of any medical mistakes unless the error is so outrageously disasterous that it makes for "good news" (ie. amputating the wrong leg).
The bottom line is you make the choices that are best for you regardless of what others think about it. When the time comes, you will find the reader you were meant to find to help you grow in awareness about what is unseen. Maybe, NOW is not the right time, but that does not mean it will never come. There is a popular quote (although I don't recall who said it) along the lines "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear."

All the best,
mj