We only have to convince ourselves that matter isn't the ultimate reality in order to find and work with the energies that form matter. The www is a fine example/ metaphor for our nonphysical development acknowledging our limitless interconnection. But what we invent or use, like Skype, is just a clunky interface that humanity can soon discard in favor of direct immediate experience, just as the 19th century's Crystal Ball has less use today because we have learned tofocus without it.
Looking at Carolean's list of methods for moving into the non-physical, it seems she has already discarded most technological aides. Maybe Skype does operate with some energy units that make it more compatible with some physically unseen life forms, but I doubt she'll use it for long. As soon as she can convince her mind that there is no harm in what she sees, I bet she'll work with non-physical being directly.
And the sooner she and other explorers do, then the sooner people like me
will see it's safe to do so and move forward again.
Shorter, we have to gradually erode our past reliance on outside physical means. New inventions are just transition-steps to doing that.