Hi Lucy,
To be fair and honest, i have spoken critically about a few sources here over the years. For the most part, with the exception of R.B., the sources i've spoken critically about are ones i've had experience with and/or my guidance has pointed out red flags in relation to.
RE: Recoverer. I have perhaps the unique position and perspective here of having spent some time hanging out in physical with him. I'm a pretty sensitive person and sometimes pick up on vibes etc. over the I-net, but especially so when spending some inphysical time with a person.
I found Albert to be a gentle and loving personality. Like with Bruce Moen, despite their very different styles, i've received positive messages from guidance about him. One possibly even saying that he is even more intune than Bruce.
So, because of this and because i consider him a friend, i speak well of him. If i had to offer a criticism of him, it would only be that at times he has tendencies towards fixity.
You mention Don and seem to compare the situations somewhat. My perspective and perception is that these are very different because Don would sometimes personally put down and criticize the folks on the board to "get his message across".
I don't find that Recoverer does this and so i see a big difference between the two. He keeps it impersonal and speaks mostly about the source or issue at hand rather than the individuals who believe in or promote same.
Re: Christianity etc. and the question of why would i care if anyone bashes it on this site. First off, i would agree with you, there doesn't seem to be much Christ in a lot of organized Christian religions (except maybe Unitarian).
I don't personally care one way or the other if a person criticizes or bashes Christianity. That was not my point, but in the context of people complaining about people speaking critically about sources and belief system, that it's not fair to only point fingers to some and not to others. If people have a problem with that then they should be speaking up for ALL belief systems and approaches.
I personally don't have a problem with people speaking critically about sources and beliefs, even those i personally believe in. Again, i only mentioned Christianity in the specific context of pointing out the hypocrisy with speaking out against criticism of beliefs and outer sources in some cases but not in others.
Lucy wrote on Apr 14th, 2011 at 5:37am:Justin
I missed the posts where you said something that tied you in with recoverer. I don't think your posts are the ones that have driven people from this site or caused people to not post experiences here. I don't always agree with what you say or with your tone but I think you are pretty mild-mannered. I do recall seeing recoverer write something about the two of you trying to warn people about some of the things that are posted here. yeah I should go back and find it but it takes a lot of time.
every time certain topics come up recoverer jumps in and puts down the source. If you do that I missed it but that kind of behavior creates a situation that is undesirable, to me anyway. Our friend Don used to do the same thing. People left this board because of that.
Christianity and I have a complex relationship. Sometimes it is a mistake to use the same word for so many things. We need as many words for Christianity as the Eskimos have for snow.
Organized religion I can do without, across the board. I think organized religion is crowd control. Often is I use the word Christianity it is wrt organized religion. I hestitate to criticize organized religion in many circumstances, 1 because it makes me unpopular ! and 2 because people turn to the other people in their religious communities in times of need and I don't want to mess with that.
beyond that, I think the whole institution is fair game and we don't have time now for all my ideas on that! I am an ex-Christian and that is worse than an ex-smoker! I don't think there's much Christ in Christianity and as such it ought to be marginalized.
I understand you have a personal relationship with a spirit you identify as Christ. I can't argue with that. I can't argue with anyone's personal experience. and You are pretty independent and I don't think you would feel comfortable with someone asuming that you fit any one of several "Christian" molds because of that. And if it is truly holy and true, I can't do anything to damage your relationship because by definition, if it is true, I can't make it not true. So what do you care if I bash Christianity?
I'm going around in circles in my mind trying to discern some underlying disagrement we are all having here.