"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest."

I think I learn through Reflection of Experience, primarily, unless I see that Imitation will benefit me in some obvious way, but for me this is rare. I posted here because I think the quote addresses spiritual growth if indeed that growth can even be differentiated from some other kind of growth.

--beau

Ah, wisdom, the most elusive of things. Hard to even define.
Does anyone have a definition for it?

crossbow wrote on Feb 21^st, 2011 at 10:57am:


Not so much a definition, but wisdom comes in the deep attunement to and application of PUL, mixed with plenty of practicality and patience (though patience itself seems to be an aspect of PUL attunement anyways).    Might also add, wisdom is often found in the attunement of balance (then again, PUL attunement brings that as well).   

  The wisest person i know and have communicated with, was and is PUL incarnate/personified.  It's ever the answer to all ills and suffering, and ever the womb of all constructive, creative gifts. 

@crossbow-- PUL stands for Pure Unconditional Love. Bruce Moen coined the term, at least for me, in his books. It is talked about quite often on this forum, but, you know, everyone has there take on it. Some really get it and others use it in an attempt to belittle others. You don't have to look far for examples of either.

Bardo wrote on Feb 1^st, 2011 at 11:12am:


Your comments resonate quite clearly with me...a constantly changing, undefinable portion of all three...I am currently wallowing in my own experiences, seeking to obtain wisdom enough to take that first plodding step.  My guidance is shouting at me to take that step, which from my standpoint is difficult because it appears my foot is nailed to the floor...I am assured it is not, but I am blinded by a sense of responsibility and fear of the unknown inherent in the extreme changes I face. 

It sounds so easy when guidance tells you that if you jump "wherever you fall will be much better than where you are, and will place you on your clearly marked path", then the details get in the way and keep me going in circles defined by the nailed foot.  I have no choice but to pull out the nail and walk, and it begins with a hard conversation...my weakness and therein my lesson.  Up to this point I would have considered my life charmed...all of it a foundation for a remarkable set of experiences...and hopefully the development of wisdom...from any and all sources.