Lucid dreams to me means: an individual with a clear system (no drugs of any kind & fairly mentally physically stable) experiencing possible 1 to 5 physical sensations in a sleeping or meditative state while being aware that they are not fully awake in the physical sense and therefore able to control or play an active role in the situation presented and have fairly good recall of that situation. Examples of how I experienced lucid dreams are after I read how others described them or explained how to do them but I don't really remember following those instructions or having these types of dreams, when sleeping, before.
In what I refer to as “dream” #1, which consisted of my then 40 year deceased father sitting in a chair opposite me as he explained the family purpose of his untimely death. By that time I must have also read about individuals that have died sometimes appearing in familiar or nonthreatening guise because I recall thinking, “that's nice, he looks the same as when I last was with him”. I recall also being so impressed by the experience that I was concerned during it that I might not remember everything that my dad was telling me but was reassured by him that the information would come back to me as I needed it. It gradually does and did.
“Dream” #2 took place shortly after my recently deceased 14 year old poodle died of complications due to diabetes and I felt so guilty for not being as sensitive to her as I could have been. She came back to me in this “dream” and as I picked her now “live” body, I could actually feel her weight, smell her smells, and the softness of her hair and I thought, I'm sensing that she does forgive me and love me in spite of my feeling that I let her down. WOW!!! To this day when I continue to feel, smell, and touch her whenever I recall this “dream”
“Dream” 3 where I was with my husband in some house near a water way when my son, his wife and kids came to visit. I was called out by my daughter-in-law for ignoring her and we proceeded to have a tit for tat verbal exchange but as I walked away thinking,” now I've really done it!” , feeling bad for being so nasty, and resigning myself to not getting any more family visits, she came up behind me giving the warmest hug, so filled with love, that to this day it brings tears to my eyes when I recall it. You have to understand that she and I have always had and continue to have a poor relationship, but I suspect that on some other (maybe non physical level) we're very close.
I want to state that for me these 3, what I call lucid dreams were very different than those I normally have had during these past 65 years or those “dreams” I experienced during a 2 week morphine induced coma in 2006 and different or maybe the same the OBE's that happened when I placed an intention, listened to the hemi-sync, was in a sleep deprived highly stressed frame of mind.
I recognized these as different, but again maybe they were the same as the retreival type done using Bruce's instructions. I didn't really work at any of these 3 lucid dreams or take steps before hand by placing intention and didn't notice at what point in my night sleep cycle they occurred but I did recognize them as different. My personal experience seems to indicate that when I'm really tired and in a resting position-sometimes just waking up or being downright asleep, I sometimes drift between free thoughts, dreams, lucid dreams, worrys/conscious reflections, and OBE's. So I agree, in reality that there really shouldn't be firm lines drawn between the various states. And that the levels probably break down to the typical run of the mill variety of cycles we regularly go through during a relaxed period. But our left brains need to have details, numbers, and it appears constant verification of our experiencesand the dual realities become blurred. Jill Bolte-Taylor makes an enteraining argument about the dual realities of our left and right hemispheres in her lecture that can be viewed on
www.ted.com/index.php/talks/view/id/229, and book, My Stroke of Insight
Jean