My son at the age of 29 passed last week of a brain tumor that we had no idea he had.  No signs until a few days before his death.  We had no idea until after the cause of death.   He had no after life beliefs, although I always told him about my communications with the afterlife, (since I lost my fiance almost two years to the day).  I think I have had one communication with him, where he told me to turn out the lamp in his room.  It seems that it had been on the whole time which was a week.  So of course we turned it off.   I am not sure if he is lost, confused, earthbound or if he has crossed over.  My other son and his girlfriend who also all lived together with my son who passed, and myself, have had those waves of extreme sickness to our stomachs.  I am not sure if we are picking up on him, or just the natural emotions that we all have.  We speak to him out loud and mentally telling my son to cross over or to ask for help if he is unsure of what is happening.  i try to assure him that he will be fine, that all will be ok, (he left behind his 10 yr old daughter and nephew), and they all were extremely close.   My nephew who also lived with my son who passed, told me that he felt his Uncle Tony was gone during the day, but came home at night. 

If anyone can at all pick up on my son or have suggestions I would love to hear from you.  Thanks.
Chantilly Chopper

Our hearts are with you, Chantilly Chopper, for your sudden loss. With love.

Dear Chantilly C,

You have my condolences, dear soul.

Regarding your request, we've learned (or it's been suggested) to not attempt contact with passed souls for several weeks after their passing. Although there is no 'time' there are still states of change that they most move through and the first period is the busiest for them. 
You might take up as a mantra repeating that he' move toward the light.'
If you will PM me his name I'll try to check on him in a week or so.

Bets

I'm so sorry to hear your son passed away, so suddenly and under such shocking circumstances.  I hope your family is coping ok.  I hope you get some communication from him soon.

Quote ChantillyChopper:
"I have just been sick with worry that he might be confused" "and hopefully he listen when I spoke of afterlife"

I believe when someone is not entirely denying the possibility of an afterlife, or holds very strong beliefs regarding punishment and such, then there should be no problems for the helpers to guide one to a good place.

Spooky

I shared this with Bets, in a pm....I forgot to speak of these two events....I have copied and pasted from my text to Bets....

I am going to mention this on the thread...because like I said, my brain is mush... but, the morning that I heard about my son, I was on my cell speaking to my daughter in law...(tonys daughters mother) and after we had spoken for awhile, (the whole time I am trying to get ready to get to my son, because I didn't want him to be dealing with the detectives by himself), and my phone has call waiting, and i saw that my son was calling me, so as I was trying to click over, in-between the connections... I heard in a whisper sounding type voice "I love you". I just knew that was my son. And i figure if he is going to communicate, a lot of it will be thru electronics...he is a computer tech, all around guru on this sort of thing. Also, we do not know the exact time of death, but my son got a video on his cell phone around 2am, and in this video there was a bunch of people standing around a firepit at night, and he could see people and hear them laughing and talking, the video lasted 13 seconds. He erased it because, he thought someone had sent it by mistake to his phone, their was no number attached to it, it just showed "fwd" as where normally you see who sent it. Well that night, we gathered at a friends house, and at that friends house, Tony's friends came over, and we all ended up around a firepit, talking, laughing, telling Tony stories. My son, who received the video, says he knows that Tony sent that to him, a prediction of the night events. So both of us received communication via cell phones in his first 24 hours. We are thankful for that.

Thanks B2,  I can't wait til I hear from him again, the mother in me needs to know he is working it out.  I just hope he has crossed or at the most, that he is not feeling as if he is alone, standing behind a glass wall yelling and shouting for us to hear him...I want him to cross so that he gets the bigger picture of life and afterlife.   Mommy loves you son!

Thank you Juditha, I responded by pm to you!!