Regarding what Seraphis wrote below:
Acceptance without investigation leads to cult members.
Before I say something about gurus, let me say something about making contact with one's higher self (in a disk sense) and spirit guidance. There are higher realms of being where spirits live completely according to love and good intentions. As long as you are certain you've made such a connection, you should be fine with the guidance you receive. You'll probably find that such guidance doesn't present you with a belief system to follow and doesn't take away your ability to think for yourself. Such guidance is more like having a friend that will point out when you're missing something, and will offer you perspectives you haven't considered. Such guidance understands that growth can be obtained when a person learns to figure things out "mainly" by his or herself, rather than being told what to believe.
Some people such as myself and apparently SHSS have really seen what the guru thing is about, and have come to understand that a responsible person who really understands something wouldn't present his or herself as a so-called enlightened being, because when one does so one basically claims that one has ultimate knowledge and what ones says is truer than other viewpoints.
When people conclude that another person is enlightened as he or she claims, then they often make the mistake of putting what this person says ahead their own experience, conscience, heart, intelligence and common sense. I've seen this happen to so many people. Until they get to the point where they stop giving another person so much power in determining what they believe, they won't be able to find out for themselves.
This being the case, any responsible person wouldn't make the mistake of setting themselves up as an authority figure other people won't question by claiming that he or she is enlightened or claiming he or she channels a being who has all of the answers; no need to look elsewhere or think differently.
Going by what I've seen, Robert Monroe and Bruce Moen don't fall into the above scenario, because neither of them were/are interested in being a guru who is put on a pedestal.
Regarding the pedestal, from a historical perspective, this is what the guru tradition is about. A disciple must surrender his or herself to the guru and turn the guru into an absolute authority figure that can't be questioned. A disciple must worship a guru as if he (or she) is god himself. Only a megalomaniacal self serving person would put his or herself in such a position. Only a dishonest (or deluded) person would claim that he or she holds the key to somebody else's spiritual welfare. Only an unethical, dishonest and heartless person would infringe upon another person's freedom and spiritual welfare to the degree guru's do.
We are all very small pieces of God to the same extent.
Therefore, I believe Spooky is wise to study Zen on his own, rather than believe he needs somebody else to tell him how to do so.
Seraphis1 wrote on Mar 21st, 2010 at 12:25am:spooky2 wrote on Mar 20th, 2010 at 9:16pm:I don't consider people to teach me something only because they have a sort of "degree". In spiritual belongs, a degree is of course much more doubtable than in science. I could declare a society of the "Golden Whatever" to be the owner of the truth, and me myself to be the top guru. Everyone can do this. So Lucy and Recoverer have my sympathy for their critical way on this. For example, I feel drawn to Zen, but I don't want to join a group or got me a teacher.
Spooky
Hi Spooky: how did you find Bruce Moen? How did you find Robert Monroe? You don't seem to have rejected either... I suspect you used common sense and instinct to chose to align with their teachings. Could you have made progress without either? The road is treacherous... the way is frougth with obstacles, miss direction... if you think you are going to negotiate this road to spiritual freedom alone you must be an avatar... because, there are some very daunting subtle things that we all need a guide to negotiate... I believe if you have a pure heart... true teachers and information will find you... you have free will... if you chose to reject it... then your path will be problematic... trust you gut... but avoid knee jerk rejection. Condemnation without investigation leads to ignorance.
S.