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heisenberg69,
>>Setting up too many parameters may keep the fear at bay and hide it, but it's not dealt with
>To which fear are you referring ?
I was referring to the fear connected to language.
If light/good is on the very left of a long bar, and dark/evil on the very right, with a huge gap of gradation in between, I'd imagine hitler would be on the very dark side for many. What I've noticed is what seems to be different bars for different aspects of a character. Whereas a neo-nazi might be somewhere on the darker side of the bar regarding jews, he or she might be somewhere on the lighter side regarding their family. Different bars for different family members. And so on for different areas. The total of all the bars for a character might around the center, close to the extreme either side, and so forth, but there are nuances, and there are different views about it.
Also what seems to be left out when saying something is pure evil, is the pyramid structures the likes of hitler and many organisations operate with. One supreme leader, buffer, different sub-leaders with different branches, buffer, and downwards it goes, all the way to the to the foot-soldiers that are the foundation of the pyramid. It'd fall to pieces without the foundation. From what I know, hitler's planning and orders certainly are very dark, but also the whole machinery that made his visions possible. A holocaust experiencer might have had a very hard time with the actions of the wardens, and not with hitler's morbid thoughts. Connected for sure, but there are nuances here too.
Going back to the language bar, I've found those on the lighter side on this bar tend to want more limiting in the use of language. Say what you will of the spirits operating somewhere on the opposite side of the mentioned bar, at least I admire the honesty that can be found there. - Don't like it, think's it's terrible, think it's bullshit, whackadoodle and so on is basically the same statement with more power allotted in terms of language and wording. One option for experiencing opposing views is to learn that it's ok that your opinions aren't always liked, and vice versa. More gradated colours on the palette.
Using cooking mentioned earlier as a metaphor - different chefs working on the same meal. Some are suggesting the meal will taste awful if you aren't careful with the spices. Others want it to stop, disregarding both the other chefs and watchers/observers. Some are suggesting that the kitchen is on fire and the waffle iron has run amok. I do see that the friggen spaghetti is boiling, but I do also see dishes being prepared that need low heat for quite some time before it's done. And so on. Easier to prepare a meal by yourself, for yourself. But as far as working together, there are as many opinions on how to do that right as there are chefs.
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