Hello, all!
I hop its correct forum place where to put msg like this..
and yeah im new one in this forum, found it with mother google help  . But about the topic : Already like  1 year i have like every day in my mind this 1 think, death..
Usually i start thinking about it when i go sleep.. im trying like to imagine how its would be when i die. and then this starting, i soo mach scare from it.. I don't really believe god exist, more like i believe we are not alone in universe that for my is more like possible. because universe is 1 big place, and 100% there need to be something. But god.. ehm.. u wanna say some guy in air watch as  , and he maid as all? More like i believe that we made from some little creatures who in big time period upgrade until a peoples. thats for my is more true able.. after reading so mach about it in books.. So we get back and yeah if god not exist then where goes after life  that more like mean there is no after life  And when i start think about it before going sleep its make me SOO mach to scare.. really really mach.. my hear like start jumping.. and i so mach afraid i cant do like this more.. When i think about it i see only Black, dark, noshing more.. like some black hole.. like u stop exsist, and its make more scare totally.. and then i always tell my self.. Damm don't worry u will never die! U will live forever.. and u know its not true..  and then u think.. sec.. damm after 20 biljo or milj (dont really member) sun will stop shining and then we all die..  so i cant live forever..  its not anymore normal.. its make me crazy. and when i think about it i have somewhere fillens like u got this brains. people use only 3-5 % and here u go what they can do if we use all 100% maybe even kill our self.. only with mind control.. and thats make me more scared and i think about it and its go in 1 big circle.. and its bad..  So somebody can tell my what to do.. I read up forum a bit i see u all believe afterlife..  How can i prove it to my self that afterlife exist?
But i wanna do it not risk with loosing my body.. pff.. 

Sorry for english still learning it..

Welcome Dariks,

I'm glad you posted here!

That dark hole has to be only your own imagination's creation because death is not that way!  If that were true, the human race would have scared itself out of existence a long time ago   

Remember the safest, kindest love you have ever felt?  That is much like the natural state of our universe.  You can imagine such love again and when you do, you will be overpowering your own fear and getting closer to a wonderful Source of Love that can gently lift you beyond physical cares. Try it   

As Vicky suggested, read the Free Articles and What Is the Afterlife etc by clicking on those titles at the top of the page. You can move past your self-made fear -- I did   

Please write again soon,
Bets

Hi,
I have experienced death due to a suicide attempt and subsequent near death experience. After my near death experience all I can say is the afterlife is wonderful much better than out present earthly realm . Death is really just like passing through a veil into another more beautiful reality

Alan

Hi Dariks, welcome. Well, one way of looking at things is to go ahead and imagine the very worst you can think of -- sort of like you already did. So, then what? Even if you end up in a dark place, I feel very sure that there will be a light nearby, somewhere, just for you. So, no matter where you find yourself, look around, and find that ray of hope.

Perhaps, read a lot of near death experiences from other people. They will show you that all kinds of things can 'happen' after death, and a lot of them are wonderful.

On this site, you can learn how to explore on your own. Or, you may find it happening naturally, as you rest in meditation, or follow a spiritual practice. You may even wake from an interesting dream and wonder, who was that?

My belief is, basically, after death, anywhere you hang your hat is your home. So, just keep an open mind, and keep reading. By the way, your english sounds very fine to me!

Welcome dariks. I hope you find what your looking for. Many people are afraid of what they dont understand. You will be OK. Take a look around. You have made the first step and opened your eyes to the possibilities.

When you die,it wount be the first time,and it will not be your last.George

george stone wrote on Jan 4^th, 2010 at 10:26pm:

seeking_answers wrote on Mar 12^th, 2010 at 1:15am:

What helped me the most with my fears was listening to the Going Home series that Robert Monroe put out, especially Disc 7. It didn't get me OoB, but it really helped me to ease my mind about death and gave me a fresh perspective on Bruce Moen's books too, which led me to look at things a bit more scientifically with Tom Campbell's "My Big TOE".

I have to say too that my fear of death was great when I was a child, but then eased in my early adult years and then returned as got into my mid forties (as  people around me began dying off). I hope you find something that works for you. It's much easier for me to live my life without fear of being dead; however, the fear of the dying process still haunts me at times.

yours
Beau

Vicky wrote on Dec 26^th, 2009 at 9:56pm:


Hi Vicky
I see you are a redhead like me, or the me of years gone by,I now have a head full of silver grey hairs

Sorry just a little chat to lighten up things a little

Alan

Alan McDougall wrote on Mar 23^rd, 2010 at 1:15am:


That's always a good question. Myself and many of my peers are pretty content with the idea of losing consciousness in death. To just not exist period. That to me is not bad at all as having nothing, no fear, pain, worries, thoughts would be the absolution to peace in my opinion. If you have no consciousness at all, then what is there to fear? I was content with this idea until discovering ghosts and and reaching enlightened epiphanies which more or less just kind of disappointed me until I can be assured fear evaporates in death. Only then would death would be worth something.

Now on the other hand, if it was revealed to the world one day that death was the complete end of consciousness...it's difficult to imagine what that would be like. I see many people losing hope, I see suicide rates increasing, I see depression hitting pretty strong. Now from a natural selection standpoint you could say that all these people affected negatively are the weak and they simply die out, while people content with that idea of death and still willing to live and survive would be the generation to push things forward. Still...I don't see much of an increase in good things.

And that's what really brought some attention to me. IF there was no afterlife. If there was no point to our existence...then why should love even exist? Why should good things exist at all? Because that idea of having no hope or belief that there is something better than this world is an awful realization. And that is almost its own truth to proving a better world does exist. Because without it, this world would know chaos. It would be worse than it already it is. And in truth, looking at how my life is now and how it has turned out...if I remained to have nothing to believe in and I had not found the knowledge I have recently found I would be in a really bad place.

It is indeed scary to conceive consciousness after death. Only because we do not know of the greatness awaiting. All we know is THIS life. So when a person tries to imagine the Afterlife, they imagine consciousness similar to life here. Even if you believe that things are so much better, unless you have experienced for yourself you can't truly comprehend it. I think there's more fear of the unknown as opposed to just death in general.

Also one should consider the bright side of fearing death, which is maybe loving life despite the woes. I've had many misfortunes and I'm not a happy person, but I still have a desire to live. If a spirit came to me now and told me I could enter the better world I would decline. Because there's still a lot I want to do here. So my greatest fear of death would be to die before I was ever able to achieve love and happiness in this life.

Stone

Your last post was very profound so profound that you should create your own blog and posts and upload your incisive thinking there.

Word of wisdom are immortal don't you think

Blessings and Light

Alan

Hello Dariks, **welcome to the board**

I feel what u are having is a "wake up" call. You "thinking" of "death" is causing you to search for answers and explainations. It seems as if your soul is trying to remind you of what you truely are and by "scaring you to death" is the only way you are beginning to look at the option that there is no death, so its really "scaring you to life". 

Keep searching and digging for the information. >> YOU WILL FIND IT. 

Hugs,
Nanner

Alan McDougall wrote on Mar 24^th, 2010 at 4:59am:


I don't think it's bipolar or manic. The psychiatrist seemed to diagnose it as clinical depression which does run in my family and attributes I know to my uncle and my aunt on my mother's side.

So I'm not really sure what it is. I've been prescribed different antidepressants to take and I don't take a single one. I understand they may be able to help but I don't believe they are a solution. I've suffered though this for awhile on my own all the while dealing with several misfortunes, suicide thoughts, immature and unsupportive friends, a complete lack of a love/sex life, and then an arrest on top of it which furthered stress. But somehow I've managed to battle it all without medication or support.

All of this is what led me here in the first place. I got to a point where I really needed to understand my life and I needed to find myself and why the hell I even exist in the first place. Why I was capable of accessing thoughts that I personally know no one else to share. Then my reflections on experiences with spirits and the effects of drugs really fueled a desire to want to understand. I spent several weeks in anxiety, confusion, and fear of death.

But I'm a fighter and I've made it far enough to know that my strength and my ability to think and reason is part of great purpose. All of my struggles are a necessity to reach that understanding. I will reflect more on this in a separate thread. But while I haven't attempted access to any psychic abilities I do now understand that a part of me knows a truth that it's waiting for me to access.

StoneColdTrue wrote on Mar 24^th, 2010 at 5:35pm:


There are different types of depression, Reactive when you are depressed because of a whole lot of negatives and unresolved issue come into play

The other is clinical depression where you are depressed for no obvious reason. This type of depression really requires medication, the last kind of depression is what I have namely; bipolar disorder which I have but thank god I am now well balanced thanks to amazing drugs that enable me to function normally

Blessing and light
Alan

Stone, 

Maybe you should try normal plants in your life, I mean like vegetables.  It's amazing what a healthy organic diet can do for your state of mind.  How old are you, anyway?

Calypso wrote on Mar 25^th, 2010 at 11:15am:


I eat fairly well. I usually take vitamins and minerals just to back up for the days I don't have time to eat enough. Physical exercise and weight lifting is of course also very valuable. I am 23.