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Im really scared about death
Dec 26^th, 2009 at 4:46pm

Hello, all!
I hop its correct forum place where to put msg like this..
and yeah im new one in this forum, found it with mother google help Wink

. But about the topic : Already like 1 year i have like every day in my mind this 1 think, death..
Usually i start thinking about it when i go sleep.. im trying like to imagine how its would be when i die. and then this starting, i soo mach scare from it.. I don't really believe god exist, more like i believe we are not alone in universe that for my is more like possible. because universe is 1 big place, and 100% there need to be something. But god.. ehm.. u wanna say some guy in air watch as Huh

, and he maid as all? More like i believe that we made from some little creatures who in big time period upgrade until a peoples. thats for my is more true able.. after reading so mach about it in books.. So we get back and yeah if god not exist then where goes after life Huh

that more like mean there is no after life Undecided

And when i start think about it before going sleep its make me SOO mach to scare.. really really mach.. my hear like start jumping.. and i so mach afraid i cant do like this more.. When i think about it i see only Black, dark, noshing more.. like some black hole.. like u stop exsist, and its make more scare totally.. and then i always tell my self.. Damm don't worry u will never die! U will live forever.. and u know its not true.. Angry

and then u think.. sec.. damm after 20 biljo or milj (dont really member) sun will stop shining and then we all die.. Undecided

so i cant live forever.. Cry

its not anymore normal.. its make me crazy. and when i think about it i have somewhere fillens like u got this brains. people use only 3-5 % and here u go what they can do if we use all 100% maybe even kill our self.. only with mind control.. and thats make me more scared and i think about it and its go in 1 big circle.. and its bad.. Embarrassed

So somebody can tell my what to do.. I read up forum a bit i see u all believe afterlife.. How can i prove it to my self that afterlife exist?
But i wanna do it not risk with loosing my body.. pff.. Undecided

Sorry for english still learning it..

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Re: Im really scared about death
Reply #1 - Dec 26^th, 2009 at 9:56pm

Dariks,

Welcome to the Conversation Board! There is a lot to read on this site that you will find beneficial to what you're looking for. Have you read the article links? Here is a link to a page on this website where it is outlined how to practice making afterlife contact.

http://www.afterlife-knowledge.com/contact.html

Vicky

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Reply #2 - Dec 26^th, 2009 at 10:41pm

Welcome Dariks,

I'm glad you posted here!

That dark hole has to be only your own imagination's creation because death is not that way! If that were true, the human race would have scared itself out of existence a long time ago Wink

Remember the safest, kindest love you have ever felt? That is much like the natural state of our universe. You can imagine such love again and when you do, you will be overpowering your own fear and getting closer to a wonderful Source of Love that can gently lift you beyond physical cares. Try it

As Vicky suggested, read the Free Articles and What Is the Afterlife etc by clicking on those titles at the top of the page. You can move past your self-made fear -- I did

Please write again soon,
Bets

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There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.
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george stone Super Member Offline Afterlife Knowledge Member Posts: 857	Re: Im really scared about death Reply #3 - Dec 27^th, 2009 at 4:42pm Are you afraid to go to sleep when you go to bed?Its the same way when you are dieing.you die everytime every night when we fall asleep.you also leave your body when you sleep.George
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Alan McDougall Super Member Offline Posts: 2104 South Africa Gender:	Re: Im really scared about death Reply #4 - Dec 28^th, 2009 at 3:24am Hi, I have experienced death due to a suicide attempt and subsequent near death experience. After my near death experience all I can say is the afterlife is wonderful much better than out present earthly realm . Death is really just like passing through a veil into another more beautiful reality Alan
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Reply #5 - Dec 28^th, 2009 at 3:27am

betson wrote on Dec 26^th, 2009 at 10:41pm:

Welcome Dariks,

I'm glad you posted here!

That dark hole has to be only your own imagination's creation because death is not that way! If that were true, the human race would have scared itself out of existence a long time ago Wink

Remember the safest, kindest love you have ever felt? That is much like the natural state of our universe. You can imagine such love again and when you do, you will be overpowering your own fear and getting closer to a wonderful Source of Love that can gently lift you beyond physical cares. Try it

As Vicky suggested, read the Free Articles and What Is the Afterlife etc by clicking on those titles at the top of the page. You can move past your self-made fear -- I did

Please write again soon,
Bets

Hi dear Bets,

I am back after a long absence after with visiting my daughter.

Love

Alan

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Reply #6 - Dec 28^th, 2009 at 9:07am

Hi Dariks, welcome. Well, one way of looking at things is to go ahead and imagine the very worst you can think of -- sort of like you already did. So, then what? Even if you end up in a dark place, I feel very sure that there will be a light nearby, somewhere, just for you. So, no matter where you find yourself, look around, and find that ray of hope.

Perhaps, read a lot of near death experiences from other people. They will show you that all kinds of things can 'happen' after death, and a lot of them are wonderful.

On this site, you can learn how to explore on your own. Or, you may find it happening naturally, as you rest in meditation, or follow a spiritual practice. You may even wake from an interesting dream and wonder, who was that?

My belief is, basically, after death, anywhere you hang your hat is your home. So, just keep an open mind, and keep reading. By the way, your english sounds very fine to me!

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Reply #7 - Dec 28^th, 2009 at 9:31am

Below is a poem of mine that might help.

Infinity Road

As I approach the infinite long dark night
I resist it with all my might
I try and try to comprehend this end
To which all men must descend

Is it a sleep that all must take?
Or is it an eternal end that all must make?
I like to dream of awakening in light not dark
In a beautiful place to which all righteous men depart

Do we sleep the sleep of forever?
Or do we awake some other place together?
Does the answer to this ultimate question
Remain forever a process of eternal redemption?

On one glorious day from timeless sleep I awoke
And heard a beautiful and kind voice that sweetly spoke
My faithful son at last you have became to understand
Exactly your place in this troubled land

You my beloved have truly never ceased to seek
The infinite destiny that in eternity for you I keep

So for you and your family no eternal death awaits
Because of your zeal to know your fate
Soon I will bring you all to this most Holy Place
And there I will you never forsake

Very soon, you shall hear a sweet call in the dark of night
Come, come into the Holy Glory of the Father Spirit of Mighty Might

I walk in the cool of evening along sweet meadows I have never seen
I smell the beauty of grasses that have never been
Strange golden streams of crystal water flows
As blue glory of mighty skies above glows

I search the long forgotten memories in the attic of my mind
Along the twisted channels the very depth soul that I could not find

I see before me things so wonderful I knew from long long ago
I puzzle over the enigma of knowing what I do not know

Out there far beyond the knowledge of any man is revealed
Something of such great mystery to it my heart had appealed

Why have I on this one thing so many years stalled?
Is this infinite knowledge from many man would be appalled?

Walking on through the shade of great trees that give eternal life

I hear the sweet forgotten voice that comes to free all from everlasting strife

High green new grasses in this new do land grow
As transparent waters chuckle dance, sparkle, and flow

ALAN (COMPOSED 16/2/2005)

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hawkeye Super Member Offline Afterlife Knowledge Member Posts: 886 canada Gender:	Re: Im really scared about death Reply #8 - Dec 29^th, 2009 at 1:52pm Welcome dariks. I hope you find what your looking for. Many people are afraid of what they dont understand. You will be OK. Take a look around. You have made the first step and opened your eyes to the possibilities.
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Reply #9 - Dec 29^th, 2009 at 4:57pm

Hello Dariks:

Regarding that dark place, some of the people who have near death experiences experience a dark place at first, but then at some point, perhaps after asking for help, they see a divine light, and move on to a place that is filled with love, happiness and peace.

I believe what near death experiencers tend to say, because I've had a similar experience without have a near death event, and experienced a heavenly realm in a manner that was absolutely certain. What I experienced was way beyond what my earth based mind could create. I understood that the heavenly realm is what our life is really about. This World is a temporary place of learning.

I've had numerous other experiences that also made it clear that the afterlife exists. Life in this World is just a very small part of what exists.

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george stone Super Member Offline Afterlife Knowledge Member Posts: 857	Re: Im really scared about death Reply #10 - Jan 4^th, 2010 at 10:26pm When you die,it wount be the first time,and it will not be your last.George
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Re: Im really scared about death
Reply #11 - Mar 11^th, 2010 at 2:57am

recoverer wrote on Dec 29^th, 2009 at 4:57pm:

Hello Dariks:

Regarding that dark place, some of the people who have near death experiences experience a dark place at first, but then at some point, perhaps after asking for help, they see a divine light, and move on to a place that is filled with love, happiness and peace.

I believe what near death experiencers tend to say, because I've had a similar experience without have a near death event, and experienced a heavenly realm in a manner that was absolutely certain. What I experienced was way beyond what my earth based mind could create. I understood that the heavenly realm is what our life is really about. This World is a temporary place of learning.

I've had numerous other experiences that also made it clear that the afterlife exists. Life in this World is just a very small part of what exists.

Hi Recoverer

You are correct I think most near death experience go firstly into what is called the 'VOID" During my Near Death event experienced it but only briefly before moving on under the guidance of the Being of Light that accompanied me

Alan

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Alan McDougall Super Member Offline Posts: 2104 South Africa Gender:	Re: Im really scared about death Reply #12 - Mar 11^th, 2010 at 2:59am george stone wrote on Jan 4^th, 2010 at 10:26pm: When you die,it wount be the first time,and it will not be your last.George You are wrong George I will not come back to this sometimes bleak earthly existence . Death is a very unpleasant thing and the thought of going through it over and over again horrifies me
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seeking_answers Full Member Offline Posts: 111	Re: Im really scared about death Reply #13 - Mar 12^th, 2010 at 1:15am Hi dirks, about ur fear of dying....trust me i was crippled with it...but then again what other option do u have?...Whether or not an afterlife exists...is another question...the question is...would u know it when u die?...chances r not..unless u happen to be tortured by someone to death...dont fear death...
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Reply #14 - Mar 12^th, 2010 at 1:44am

seeking_answers wrote on Mar 12^th, 2010 at 1:15am:

Hi dirks,

about ur fear of dying....trust me i was crippled with it...but then again what other option do u have?...Whether or not an afterlife exists...is another question...the question is...would u know it when u die?...chances r not..unless u happen to be tortured by someone to death...dont fear death...

The real fear of death is the idea that after you die you simply cease to exist. AS a person once clinically dead I can assure you the essential you, your awareness and unique consciousness simply continues to exist usually in a much more beautiful place

Blessings and Light

Uncle Alan

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