ChantillyChopper
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T, this is my experience. After my fiance died, I spoke with two mediums. And I also believe very much so that he was earth bound for around two months with me. Lots of experiences with that one, I can assure you. As a reminder our motorcycle accident killed him instantly...
But to get to the conversations. I always just spoke to my Scott. All day long, just would talk to him and I would hear responses, but like you, i was confused, and believed it was me just answering for him. But one particular day, all that changed.
I was driving on i-4 here in Orlando. And as I was driving i was doing my everyday conversations, just chatting away and hearing him...or me talk right back. then something different happened. He says to me, honey slow down, there is an accident up ahead. And i was like...oh ok, and he said, no honey, slow way down, you are going to come to a complete stop up here around the corner. again, i am thinking sure...hmmm, ok....., as i came around the corner, the traffic wasn't stopped, and i said..ok, so its not you. and he said, would you wait a second, its stopping. and sure enough and i came out of the curve of the road, traffic was stopped dead. ok, so this wasnt enough for me. I said really, oh what seems to be the problem? Because the traffic was backed up and i couldn't see what side the accident was on, because it is 4 lanes and i couldn't tell yet. So he replies..."Oh, just a little fender bender up on the left". And i said, oh ok....still not believing i was talking to him. so about 5 minutes of bumper to bumper i see one of those road side assistance trucks and it had a big flashing arrow pointing to move to the right lanes. So, i thought it was just road work, so again, i think, ok, not him talking to me, this is road work, not an accident. But as i got closer, sure enough, a car with not much wrong with it. so i went hmmmm, that pretty amazing... one the traffic came to a complete stand still, he knew it was on the left side of the road, and that it was a fender bender.
so, i thought, well lets take this a little further, i said Scott, as you know, I am on my way to meet my son, what color shirt will he be wearing.... and he laughed and he said, it will be blue Carla. so i got to my destination to meet my son, and there he was wearing a blue shirt. so ok, maybe something is going on.
As i leave the event, i am driving and talking to him again, and I said Scott, if this is you, i want to hear a song on the radio and i want to hear it now before i get home (which would be in about 10 minutes) i wanted to make sure that the song would not play just sometime during the day...i wanted it to happen now. and it is a song that is not a song that plays a lot, it was our song. so he says "I can make that happen" now, I was married to a DJ, I know they play songs in rotations and they have a schedule they follow when it comes to songs...so I thought what i was asking was impossible.
But as I sat at the red light, i got on my cell to call my best friend and tell her of the events. Every-time i called, i would get this error message come up,(never happened before) after 4 attempts, i put my phone down and turned my radio back on...because I had turned it off in my thoughts that i would be speaking to my g/f on the phone and wanted to hear her. so after not being able to reach my g/f i, turned the radio on, and as i did so, the "Song" started playing. And i started crying. And Scott said to me, its not suppose to make you cry.... And I said, I am crying because i realize i am talking to you...i am really talking to you. And he said, yes baby, its me, I told you. now quit crying and drive safely. So I said, Scott, i can't remember where the SunBank is and I got to go the post office, which way should I go. And he said, "honey, the bank is in the same parking lot as the post office." and me, being the blond that I am, started laughing...because he was right. So then he said, when you get to the post office you are going to meet a gentleman. And i said... "oh really? i don't care to meet anyone" and he said, well you will. So i still chat away, and I go to the post office. and I fill out a change of address card, and an older gentlemen asked me a question, and then I ended up standing in line for him, because physically it was hard for him to stand, so I got his stamps because he was mailing a letter to Italy. And we spoke a little while longer and as I walked out the door, my Scott said...."I told you, you were going to meet a gentleman in the post office" and I busted out laughing.
So that was the first day of knowing that indeed i was talking to my sweetie.
Now, the difference is, listen for their mannerisms, words they would use, not necessarily your words. Ask them to predict a small event, like what is the next color of a car you are going to see, something like that. Even now, Scott usually firms up his messages to me, by telling me i will see this or that, the other day after telling me that my b/f new grandchild would be a boy...he followed up with, when you stop at the gas station, you will see a mercedes benz in the front of the parking lot, it will not be getting gas, but it will be there before you pull out. So sure enough, I pull in, it is not there, but when i start my car and look up to the front of the store, there now was a mercedes benz parked there, when just a few minutes before there was not. So it is the little things they will tell you..or ask them to show you something, they will, they can see the future and will tell you about it, as long as it doesn't interfere in your lifes paths. Or at least that is what I believe.
And he does tell me things about the after life. not a whole lot of details, somethings he says he can't tell me and those things I will experience. But he says this or that about stuff, and he has met people i know, specially my mom,....and that was really funny. so I am content in my belief that it is him, because I certainly don't know when i am going to see a mercedes benz, or a pink chopper, or a rainbow. Or what someones test results or going to be, or what someone ate for lunch. Sometimes just silly stuff, sometimes more important things. Or again, I am completely nuts and which case...i just stay completely nuts. Because I can't say how much happiness it brings me to talk to him or when he brings someone in, who wants to get a message to someone. i love that I can do this. And they way i hear it, it is like talking on a cell phone, i talk, he talks, sometimes he tells me to wait and to listen what he saying because i still go off like he is here and yell even at him for something...and then I laugh, and he laughs, and I tell him even in death he can't escape me being bitchy!
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