well said....sometime when we demand "time" of those who have died we keep them attuned to this time and sphere of energy/life time. I beleave it better to give them you blessing of love and let them move on. They need nothing more from us...yet we who are left behind here somehow feel we must keep this bond we had strong. Not to forget them. Most likly she needs no help from these people. People who truly understand would never keep her back from moving onward. Because keeping her here is a form of entrapment and could represent a type of a hell situation for her. I am not saying to forget her. Just to love her and be happy for her having been a part of you life experience. I know that you already know that she is just fine. True ghost hunters/releasers wouldn't be looking in her direction. She has only just passed. (and shes not entrapped with the energy or timeline) A true ghost hunter moves to assist those who are trapped within an experience or timeline. I happen to know one through TMI.
One other thing. Not everyone needs to be retrieved. Most of us move on over just fine without any help needed. She needed no retrieval from her experience.