Dear anyone,
Which is the first port of call for the souls after death?
Thank you.
Love
Pam

  Hi Pam,

  I just want to add that no one is really "put" anywhere by anyone outside of themselves. 

  In the nonphysical, people "go" where they are automatically attracted via the law of like attracts and begets like, or what some call vibrational, harmonic resonation.

   When a person really changes their inner vibratory patterns, then they move on to a different "place", or rather phase to a different/unique, but connected vibratory level.   

  The more one opens up to a more pure, universal, unconditional kind of love based on Oneness, the more one will be attracted to ever more Light filled vibratory levels/dimensions.

  The more one cuts oneself off from that kind of Love based on Oneness/connectedness with all others, the more will be attracted to vibratory levels/dimension that are lacking in Light and to which most people would seem not very "nice" dimensions or focus levels. 

  You have physical Earth, you have the temporary "hells", the state of being stuck between physical and nonphysical, the many various hollow heavens, and then ever more Light filled, more consciously aware, more balanced/integrated, and more Oneness oriented levels.   
The further you go, the more you drop stuck, inflexible, and limiting beliefs and the more you focus on that which facilitates expansion and limitlessness, which is that above kind of Love (which includes being of service to others, kindness, compassion, thinking more of others than of self, etc).

  You are the one who is the captain of your ship and decides either unconsciously (most often), or consciously where you will end up via your livingness in relation to the Law of Love and the Law of like attracts and begets like. 

  If you are stuck in the more stuck areas, there will be various guides and helper type energies trying to help you to move onto more joyful and limitless areas.

I personally avoid the 'like attracts like' phrase because it reminds me a little bit of the 'blame the victim' game that some people like to play at times.

I think it would be easy for someone to think that a person 'deserves' less than ideal circumstances in the afterlife, or in their own present lifetime.

I have real difficulty with that. Through no fault of their own many people are drawn into less that 'happy' circumstances, here and in the hereafter.

Better, in my mind, to emphasize the benefits of seeking the light, and the availability of helpers to guide us where we need to go.

If you have a glimmer of hope, that is all you need, in my opinion. To go just about anywhere.

Even better than asking, in my opinion, is being able to recognize the path/gift when it appears.

Some gifts are just that, gifts. Others may come with a little more wrapping on them, but they're still gifts.

Good point, Betson, the gift that keeps on giving....

For some, reading Bruce Moen's books may provide the missing pieces of the puzzle. Others might find his experiences mystifying. But, certainly, after reading them, the mind can open to the unexpected in some beautiful ways.

It is true that it is almost impossible to provide perfect 'answers' on a forum such as this, because we are all operating from our own experiences -- our own cumulative studies and experiences. So, occasionally, a reader may hear the suggestion to 'try it yourself' and think people are being secretive or false in some way. However, this is really the only way to get a 'feel' for what he has actually described in his books. A lot more things make sense after 'trying' it...and, still, any reader will hear a variety of viewpoints here, some with which Bruce Moen most likely does not agree.

Nevertheless, this leaves a forum which is open to exploration and new ideas. Enjoy.