Hi Sammy,

(and welcome to this place!)

Physically there is a fine cord that connects the physical body with some of the subtler bodies that go on after death. The cord breaks at physical death but stays attached during OBEs and other mental extensions of our consciousness.

Usually souls or the finer subtle bodies are so happy to be free of pain, gravity, and all that goes with the physical that they are very happy to shed it!
It seems to me that if a soul got really emotionally attached to their body, they would be denying the wonders of the afterlife and would probably/possibly end up haunting the earth plane.

Are you thinking of some situation that might help us think this through abit better?

Bets

Hi again Sammy,

By coincidence my family is going through the same process due to my mother's grave being separate from my father's and his second wife's.  I believe the moving around decisions are based on whatever the living people want. Anyway, that's what happens when famous people such as generals and celebrities get reinterred. 
Those who have left earth don't care, unless they are of a faith that considers burial grounds sacred, as with the Native Americans.

Souls reunite with ancestors and family members when they are in the heavenly realms, and the love there helps them forget most problems dealing with the physical.

bets