hi, im 16 years old, and my aunt just recently passed away.
she raised me my whole life, till i was about 13 years old, then i moved 2 hours away from her with my mother. i still kept in contact with her, up to about 5 months ago. i stopped calling her, and i wonder if shes mad at me. shes always had alot of health probelms, and when i found out that she had kidney failure, this didnt ccome to a surprise to me, because of all her previous health issues. and i still didnt call her. before i knew that she passed away, i had a dream about her, and she said in that dream how she missed me, and i hugged her, and left. then my foot caught on fire, and i woke up. i knew something wasnt right with that dream, and when i woke up, my mom told me she needed to talk to me about something, and thats when i found out that she was dead.

she comes into mii dreams about 3 times a week.
& i'd like to know if shes reallyy contacting me, or if this is just my imagination.

thanks for any helpp!

-beth

She's not mad at you for not calling...even if she was in life (which I doubt - it's kind of a sixteen thing, and she was sixteen once), she isn't now.

I say this both because she came to you, and because spirits just know better how things are.  Not that they necessarily gain total knowledge by passing over, but they can see further, both in time and space.  In the overall scheme of things, people are developing their own world around them at your age, and tend to disappear for a while from the lives of the older family members.  It isn't bad, it just is.  She's probably over there chuckling and saying "Kids!"

And now you can talk to her any time, and she can hear you, *and* understand.  Bummer is that you can't hear her talk back as easily, but it can be done.

thnaks for all the postings!
they all helped me alot!

but last night i just had a really weird dream.
about my aunt.

me and my mom were sitting in this room( that ive never seen before), and someone called. my mom anwsered the phone and was talking to this person, then she hands the phone to me. and says its my aunt. i talked to my aunt, and she was telling me how she has a boyfreind. and i aucually asked her what i wanted to ask her since she passed away. and that was if she was mad at me. and she said she wasn't mad at me at all. and she couldnt talk to people in the hospital anyways.


was that a real dream of her trying to contact me?

and WHY did she dicide to use a telephone this time?!

thanks for any help!!

-beth

thankss!

&& about a week ago, i had another dream about her.

we were sitting outside, and a bee stung me, then stung her. ( were both very allergic to them). and she only had ONE epi-pen. and she used it on me. instead of herself.

i wonder what that symbolized?
any ideas?

thanks for any help!

thankss!
&= the other thing that bothers me is, im scared she'll recarnate before i get to see her again, in the afterlife.

will she wait for me?

Reincarnation gives me sleepless nights too...if freewill exists...shudnt the choice to reincarnate rest with us?...

thanks for all the posts guys!!!

and thanks juditha, now i wont have to worry about her recarnating without me being there. that was always my main worry since she passed away.

And does anyone have any idea where my aunt is right now??
she has been passed away for 12 days now, and i'd like to know where she's at, and what that place looks like.

I agree with what everyone has said, Bethh. You are very lucky to have had so many vivid "visitation dreams" of your aunt, and to have remembered them all so clearly. It surely demonstrates the deep love between the two of you, and that she senses that you have been worried that she might be angry with you, and is reassuring you. Your worries were about things which, though they seem important to you here in physical matter reality, are of no consequence in the bigger picture, which your aunt is now aware of again.

Others have worried like you about possibly 'missing' their loved ones if they reincarnated before they could reunite - even Robert Monroe, one of the pioneers in exploring the afterlife and the bigger picture, worried that his beloved wife Nancy would have 'moved on' away from him before he too passed over; all the evidence, from explorers such as Bruce Moen (of this site) and others who knew the Monroes personally, is that they are indeed still together in the afterlife. There are many different parts to each of us, and that part of your aunt will always be there for you.

If you are interested in doing so, you might take up practising meditation, and if you become good enough at it, you might find you can contact your aunt and others any time you like, not just through dreams!

Good luck!  

Alfred