Sonia said:
- Alysia, you told me that you create what you focus on. Well, I definitely intend on creating a lot of love for you, so I am going to focus on that.
that's true. when I go obe I've been told by others here I am talking about focus constantly. it was good confirmation for me that what I do out there, I do here too! I see being focused as to be one-pointed in intention setting. I would rather you create a lot of love for all these people here and in the world. I don't like to attract attention to myself, but if I do, then I can learn from that too, from you and others who I am better.
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Thank you for your honesty which I greatly appreciate.
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same to you. I see you are displaying honesty yourself. we could be two peas in a pot? lol.
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- You shouldn't search love outside of yourself, but inside of yourself.
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I think Nanner answered this marvelously about how love starts to be seen everywhere, as you focus on it in process. about teachers are everywhere. u r a teacher Sonia.
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- The action of love, or the action of PUL, creates PUL
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yes, we could say that thought itself is holographic, spinning off like thoughts, it builds to eventual release from binding belief systems.
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but the action of PUL should come from the intention of PUL
the intention is the most important initiator of spiritual evolvement, and we are all spiritual beings, no matter what beliefs we hold. the intention setting is what u r doing right now, as I see it. I call this the decision maker, (ACIM) or observer developing, (personal message) who eventually takes charge of the personality. sometimes I call it Spirit. Monroe calls it I/there.
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Pause here a moment Sonia: just take a brief moment to see how your thoughts have led me to express here. this is what I call getting the overview of people interacting from honesty values.
it causes changes in all.
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if you give PUL to use someone and throw that person away, it is not PUL.
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if another is using someone, that's conditional love versus unconditional love. Conditional love can also be used by Spirit to promote uncondtional love, if the person who is the "user" openly says "I am using you." if the other party agrees to be so used, it can lead to their own unfoldment of who they are choosing to be, by being so used. I bring this up because of a relationship where I realized I was using someone and told him so. He agreed to be used. lol. however, the relationship did lead to growth on both our parts, eventually to the unconditional love.
- the strongest PUL comes from the intention of PUL that is given naturally and out of free will.
free will PUL giving is like spontaneous. it's easy to give love when all is going right, it is when you meet with opposition that the real challenge ensues. and this ok too, as eventually we get to that natural part of it u r talking about.
- you should seek PUL where there is PUL.
It's more to say ask and you will receive, but you could say seek and you will find, same thing. it's a natural law that works, it's also where you focus as an intention that builds on itself. it is a human who is learning creativity of personal reality. I speak for myself, but I believe the principle is for all. and I'll add, it was no mistake that you came here, and any that remains here, have their own function here and I thank each one for that.
If a person is fear-based and not love-based, you will not get love from that person or PUL
the thing to remember is fear stems from our particular belief systems. we surf between fear and love all the time, yet fail to recognize when we are coming from fear. It is the risk factor of ELS, that we learn what perfect love is by staying focused on our intentions for incarnating. gee, there's so much distraction on this lovely planet!
you will get fear, because it is its essence
Our true essence is love based. this is notable obe or in NDE's especially, that love is purposeful. If the mind is habitually trained into the negativity of fear, it is focused in that area. That is why the art of retrieval is such an exciting discovery, as the retriever can gain the attention of the retrievee through an act of PUL, effectively moving the spark of attention they were focused on "believing" thus creating it for themselves. some of these do not realize they may be suffering, until another can ask "must you?" the main thing is to forgive when u see others surrounded in fear, but not necessarily to see fear as their essence, but to see them as One with yourself, whom you know is love essence.
Of course, if I only offer PUL to someone to get PUL back, it is not "unconditional", so it is not really PUL. Am I right?
yes, you are right.
I want to add that I came to the conclusion that a loving behavior is always best
I came to realize anger is never justified as an expression if it interferes in another's free will determination. we are speaking in only the most superficial generalities here as well, for anger, used by Spirit, can also create the PUL in linear time that was the point, if the anger is given over to HS to utilize.
but not if it stops you from being honest about less-loving-things that one tries to solve.
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I think we are still speaking in generalities about the nature of evil, or whether as Monroe states, there is no bad, there is no good. when we communicate here, we want to grow and learn and be together. we also want change in the world, which only starts with the individual. u have to be honest about your own reactions to what is bad on the surface. any of us can be very complicated beings. one good way to look at the world is that there are two kinds of people:
1) those giving PUL
2) those asking for PUL
1) those expressing abundance principle
2) those expressing a belief in scarcity, or lack of love.
Love and fear cannot be present at the same time eg. If I love this board, but fear to post, I am gonna have a real problem learning about PUL because there is a lot of PUL here.
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I got you to express love. therefore you can drop the fear right now as it doesn't serve anybody here. I learned a lot from this board. one of the things I learned was how to get a response from others. I discovered people responded to a personal story, given with the intention to just share it without expectations of being applauded for having had it happen to me. this reminded them of their own stories of a like fashion. and I don't want anyone to think it's bad to have a fear express here, or that they cannot be expressing their belief that life sucks and then you die.
that's why we're here to present the oppositional thought and come to some sort of conclusion from time to time. it's a fine line to walk when we become disrespectful of anothers belief system, and whether we actually have some inspirational story to share, whether we shall allow freedom of expression, versus tromping all over someones prized garden of soulful ideas because it simply doesn't fit in your belief system. we need to generate communication, not to shut it down with too much negatives. just balance is all I'm desiring.
I got what I wanted. I'm not saying that to be egotistical. I just need to get an ident on Sonia.
that means an energy signature. because we all have one.
happy shifting everyone...rock on!
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